Hey hun, If he’s been in a relationship since 2012 and broken up with his girl.. even though there is a baby on the way, I don’t think it’s wise you get involved with him, especially if it’s not going to be casual sex or just a fling. He has a family on the way.. and yeah he’s not with her now, but what about after the baby is born? I think you should let him focus on his family instead of creating an emotional attachment otherwise known as a relationship. I think you’ll lose out in the end.

Oloni

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Aww thanks. x

Hey darling, I’m so sorry to hear about the remarks your mum is making. You should be able to feel comfortable enough to talk about contraception and not worry about her making such upsetting comments.

For starters 10 st. is NOT overweight, second I think you should get professional help from a sexual health nurse so they can personally advise and suggest what is right for you, not your mum. I’d also suggest you try and see a councillor, because the last thing I’d want for you is to slip back into that dark space.

Another important thing I think you need to do is speak to your mother about what she says to you, regardless of how her generation was, you need to voice out that you do not appreciate her put downs and how it makes you feel. You’re an adult and allowed to have sex when you choose to, the fact that you’re on contraception in the first place shows you take sexual well-being seriously.

Oloni

I don’t see why you need to share your sexual activities when you were apart. You were single. Nothing positive will come from it if you decide to share, however it’s your choice.

Oloni

Hey love! This is so tricky because you made a promise, however I can only imagine you may not feel 100% comfortable. It’s nice that she wants you involved, sweet in fact, but I think you should give her a call and let her know how you feel. She might know, she might not.. the important part is you having a chat with her so you can both come to an understanding.

Oloni