Hey love, you might need to switch up things in the bedroom for example.. longer foreplay, different positions, new themes, toys, etc. You need to find out what makes you orgasm also, clitoral or vaginal penetration.

Oloni

Eeek hey love, I know this is annoying but you MUST talk to him about it and explain how it makes you feel. You could come up with a few suggestions too. When I worked in a sex store I’d always encourage the men to buy flavoured lubricant to help enjoy the experience more with their lovers. You could do that and see if he’s open to it. If not, let it go and understand you might not be sexually compatible. You either stay and deal with it or leave, but you can’t force him.

Oloni

Hey love, my favourite tip to feel sexy is to buy new underwear a bottle of wine play loud music and dance around in your room. It sounds crazy, but it’s what I do lol! Take some photos too and send them to your partner, cut your head out of course. lol – Or you can do the typical thing, which is to get a new hair style and buy some new clothes. I prefer my tip though. Underwear nudes >

Oloni

Hey hun, have a chat with your girlfriend. Explain how you feel about it! If there’s enough trust between the both of you, there should be no reason as to why you think she might do something behind your back. Threesomes aren’t for everyone and can cause a major change within a relationship. It works for some who are in an open relationship and it doesn’t for others especially those who are in a monogamous one.

Oloni

It just sounds like your relationship is slightly damaged and even though you’ve decided to start over, it’s still affecting him. He probably does love you, but is scared you’ll take advantage of his feelings again, so is trying to come off cold. You have to have a talk with him and make it clear that if you both can’t make that effort to make the relationship work, without any pettiness you go your own way.

Oloni