Hey,

First of all your wife is not a child, so I’m not sure what exactly you mean by discipline in reference to a grown adult and quite frankly that’s a worrying choice of words to use in reference to your wife and I do hope you have no intentions of harming her.

Now assuming and hoping that is not the case your first response should be to actually sit your wife down and make it extremely clear that the way she is behaving is damaging your relationship.

Explain to her that things need to change (without being patronising) if your marriage is to be healthy (or continue depending on what you have decided).

Ask her if there’s anything you need to know or anything that may be causing her to act out.

If a conversation doesn’t work maybe ask if she’d be willing to seek marriage counselling with you.

If that doesn’t seem to work it’s down to you to work out how best to protect your happiness. Only you can come to that decision. After exhausting all of these options with no progress, please feel free to write in with your options and we can guide you through them all.

Ebi. A

Ahh great question and you’re lucky it’s only Ibiza. I had this same dilemma when I travelled to Dubai last year. What I did was hide it in the packaging and put it in my make up purse then put my make up purse in my luggage (not hand luggage) then I was good to go. Try the same thing! The great thing about HERGASM is how discreet it looks too. It literally doesn’t look like a sex toy.

Oloni

HERGASM, get it here!

Hey hun, I know you sent this message a couple days ago, so I apologise for only responding now. I know the position you’re in must be tough, but you’re going to have to tell him, as you’re both involved, you didn’t get into this position on your own. I think you should also see a GP and and decide carefully on what you want to do. If possible speak to family who you trust and perhaps a very good friend for support. I’d also suggest you speak to a professional about your situation so you can make the right decision for yourself physically and mentally. If you ever need a chat, you’re more than welcome to send me an email privately. simplyoloni@gmail.com  – Sending lots of love, girl stay strong!x

Oloni

Hey hun, it sounds like she could either be busy or losing interest. Simply put however, you need to talk to her and see where her mind is at, after that judge what she says with her behaviour towards you.

Oloni