If you know this, you should be telling him and sticking to your words by leaving.

Oloni

Hey hun, when it comes to personal hygiene, especially with your sexual partner or boyfriend, you just have to be honest and let them know, that down below doesn’t smell too pleasant. I always say if you can’t be open with someone you’re having sex with, you shouldn’t be sleeping with them period. You’re only doing yourself a disservice by withholding that small piece of info, which could help work things out in the bedroom.

Oloni

Yes, of course. When you’re educated enough about sex and ready to explore your sexuality.

Oloni

Hey hun, if you ever want to talk I’m here! I would also recommend you get professional help and see a therapist or a counsellor. I’m so sorry to hear about how you’re feeling, but you must remember you will be okay. It’s fine to cry and think about it, you’re human. You went through something difficult and deserve all the support you can get. Please continue to stay strong ❤️

Oloni

Hey girl, this a problem I’ve heard many times from women who have only been with one guy. They either feel inexperienced or just have lustful fantasies because they simply enjoy sex.

What you’re feeling is very common and also natural. I would suggest you pump your breaks on the marriage talk with him if this is where your head is at, stop rushing and ask yourself if you’re together because of your child or if there is more. Are you completely happy in your relationship or are you after more something else outside of it? If the answer is the latter then talk to him. If you’re in a commited relationship you have to let your partner know how you feel emotionally and sexually. The conversation might even help you both.

I will say this though, don’t go rushing into something you’re not truly ready for if you’re having these thoughts. It makes no sense.

Oloni