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I’ve been with my man for some months now and we just moved in together. He wants to split all the bills entirely but he makes way more than me. I don’t think it’s fair and not to sound like a princess but I’m used to guys spoiling me. He didn’t buy me anything for my bday because he was broke and now that he has this good job he still haven’t made it up to me. Idc Ima good woman but I hope him being cheap doesn’t ruin our relationship. 4. September 2016

It’s fine to have your expectations, but girl, if he didn’t get you a a missing eye teddy bear for your birthday, what made you think he’d handle most of the costs when moving in together? I’m sure you’ve always had an idea of your partners spending habits. Right now I think you need to have a conversation with him and if you can’t split the bills move out.

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Hey Oloni, congrats with everything! Now I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and it hasn’t been easy. He’s my first love and first everything. He has done things that have broken my trust for him and we’ve been working on building it back up. He use to be very considerate of my feelings about things and had always wanted my opinion about places he wanted to go to. Normally I would approve but some places make me very uncomfortable and I really don’t want him to go and he would accept my feelings towards it and not go. Recently, he’s doesn’t really care for my opinion and tells me he doesn’t care and he’ll still go and do whatever. He gets very upset and calls me controlling and manipulative making me upset. I don’t fully trust him and that’s the major issue with our relationship. Am I being controlling? 4. September 2016

I don’t think it’s fair to tell him where he can and can’t go, you can state how you feel about it, but that’s it. It’s then up to him to decide what he’ll do with the information. If he has hurt you recently it wouldn’t make sense for him to put you in a position that will make you even more uncomfortable.

I just think you both have a bit of talking to do. Your relationship seems quite intense and all over the place. If you’re working on things purely because he’s your first love, then you need to grow up and rethink this relationship. Commitments don’t work out just because you were each others first anything. If something is broken and can’t be fixed, let it go.

Oloni

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How do you have so much wisdom and knowledge when it comes to sex and relationships? 4. September 2016

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Hi Oloni. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. Recently during arguments he has been calling me a fucking bitch and prick a lot. This is something that has never taken place before. I am on the verge of leaving him , am I overreacting or is this the right decision? 4. September 2016

A guy will only try what he thinks he’s going to get away with. You could give him a warning, then leave if it happens again or just end things.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we broke up because I found out he was messaging another girl, I also found out prior that he slept with someone else whilst we was together. We have recently reconciled and he has told me now he his serious about being together and that he his sorry about the past. I love him so much and want a future with him but don’t know if I should trust him or if he is being genuine, shall I give him another chance? 4. September 2016

Hey hun, that’s your coin to flip. I can’t tell you whether you should be with someone or not, but what I can do is ask, WHY? Why do you need to be with someone who has shown they can’t be loyal or faithful? Being apologetic doesn’t mean you need to be back together, but if you feel like you can move past it all and trust and forgive, then it’s your call.

Oloni

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