Hi oloni, Me and my ex dated for about 2 years. Things were going great but then my boyfriend put on ALOT of weight and it fully turned me off him. The thought of having sex with him again made me fill nauseous. It got to the point where everything he did just pissed me off and one day we had a big argument and I said some really mean things about his weight then broke up with him. I was lonely for about a year, haven’t had sex or even been on a date. So I started thinking about him and I looked at his social media. When I say this guy is now RIPPED, I couldn’t even believe it. He lost all that weight and he looks even more handsome than when we first met. I’ve been thinking about him everyday and feel terrible for how I left things. I really want to message him but I’m scared at how things may turn out. Should I just leave him alone?
2. October 2017
Yes, leave him alone. You were incredibly nasty to him. Hopefully you’ve learned from that experience.
Oloni
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I went on a date with this guy who’s DM’s I slid into. In messages everything was amazing and when we first met he looked amazing. I thought the date was great but he didn’t text me after for a few days so I messaged him. He said he’s not interested in me because “I didn’t offer to split the bill”. for him he says it says a lot about the woman’s character. I didn’t think this would be a big deal but after that date I’m head over heels for this guy already. Is there anyway you think I can fix this?
2. October 2017
Let it go hun. There’s others.
Oloni
I have been having thoughts of cheating on my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 months. He doesn’t satisfy my sexually & he complains that he is not satisfied most times but he is really trying hard to improve our sex life. He’s a really good guy but I feel like I want to explore because I lost my virginity to him and I haven’t been with anyone else
1. October 2017
Discussing this on my radio tonight #LaidBareLiveOnRadar on radarradio.com at 8pm
Hey Oloni, I hope all is well. I just simply wanted to thank you for being such a great role model for young women like myself. You’ve given me so much insight and advice that I’ve taken and my life began to flourish. I’ve gotten rid of a guy who was using me and now I am so much happier. So thank you again. I wish you this best in every aspect of your life!
1. October 2017
I typed my name in my boyfriends whatsapp and I saw that when we started seeing eachother (like way before our relationship, around 4 months in) He sent a private photo which I sent him (quite provocative, underwear but nipples covered) to one of his close boys. It made me feel on edge especially since we’ve exchanged several nudes since then. That one picture was the only evidence I saw and quickly put his phone back down and did not mention it because he’s just gonna go on about why I read his messages and snooped. We are now like 5 months into our relationship and we’ve had good times and a nice summer. I’ve also been around the boy the sent it to as that’s his friend but I didn’t know he’s seen so much of me. I want my bf to know I’m not cool with that at all but I don’t know how to bring it up without snitching on myself about going on his whatsapp. This was yesterday by the way that I discovered this. My girls don’t like him so they’ll tell me to leave but I love him so What should I do about this??
1. October 2017
Discussing this on my radio tonight #LaidBareLiveOnRadar on radarradio.com at 8pm
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