Hi Oloni. This isn’t even a question because I’d have to give way too much detail to formulate it. I just need to vent. I’ve been with my guy for about a year and four months. We live together. We love each other. But he refuses to acknowledge our relationship to anyone other than one of his (6) brothers and his best friend. He’s 51 and I’m 25 so a I can see why it might feel awkward but it’s gotten to a fairly serious stage and it’s just embarrassing for me when he denies our relationship to people who have clearly sussed. 🙄
11. October 2017
Why haven’t you left then?
Oloni
I’ve been seeing this boy for a while now and we’ve been getting to know each other on a personal level and I’ve really grown to like him. One thing I have noticed tho is that he can be kind of cheap sometimes and I’m the complete opposite. I’m not saying I waste money but I do like to enjoy myself once in a while because life is short. I would like to be taken out once in a while since I feel like we are building our relationship but he is yet to do that. I don’t know if it’s something I have to tell him to do but is it a bad sign because he is definitely not broke.
11. October 2017
How about you just have a conversation with him and express that you’d like to experience more with him.
It’s very easy love. Nothing major, people spend their money differently.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, let me explain the situation first. I’m white but my boyfriend of over a year is Ghanaian and my parents are really against it and dare I say racist, and I live with them because I’m 18, however i found i’m pregnant last week and i told my man but if i tell my parents i already know 100% that they WILL kick me out because they’ve said this before. what is the best thing for me to do in this situation?
11. October 2017
Heya hun! It’s SO sad that your parents feel this way, but right now, the best thing for you to do is keep calm, but also plan your next step.
Try seeking help from your council and see if you can speak to them about temp housing or the fact that you might soon be homeless. You can also try seeking help from the CAB here: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/
Good luck
Oloni
Hi Oloni , just a short quick question. How long would you say you should be in the talking stage with a guy for?
10. October 2017
We don’t do talking out here, you do dating sis. Dating stage for me should be anything from 3-6 months.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I’ve been fucking this guy in uni and his girlfriend was abroad for a year. I’ve really enjoyed spending time with him these last 6 months but his girl is coming back next week, what should I do?
10. October 2017
Wait for her at Heathrow.
Oloni
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