I went to the petrol station with my man and it was pay at pump and he didn’t have his card so he said let me use your card and I’ll give you cash, he gave me £15 cash and did his thing whatever I didn’t watch as why should I, I trust him. A few days later I check my online banking and see he put £35 petrol in, when he told me and gave me £15. This pissed me off also I no he has a lot of money so it’s not as though he can’t afford it, if that was the case I would have ignored it but he has money. When I confronted him he just said sorry 🙁 like that was all no reasoning didn’t even seem embarrassed? Is this a red flag!! It’s not even the money it’s the principle, is he taking me for a prick or what I don’t no what to think of this? He offered to give the money back but why did he even do that in the first place. Is this a reason to re evaluate the relationship
1. October 2017
Discussing this on my radio tonight #LaidBareLiveOnRadar on radarradio.com at 8pm. However, he’s an asshole, get your money back. And explain how you feel.
Dear oloni I got mixed up with some guy in fraud a couple of weeks ago. We slept together first week of uni then he asked if I wanted to make money. He took my card and then said the whole thing went wrong, gave me £200 cash and then my card got blocked. I’ve been calling this boy endlessly and he’s ignoring my calls and messages. Couldn’t even pay my contract Because of what’s happened to my phone. Next thing I hear he’s seeing another girl who has become quite popular because she’s pretty and I think I should tell her to watch out because no one knows what he’s done to
26. September 2017
Are you annoyed cus he’s moved on? Or because you genuinely don’t want him to do it to another person. If it is the latter, then it’s up to you to inform her.
You should however, sort yourself out. Why on earth did you think it was okay to give your card to someone you just met??? That’s not smart at all.
Stay away from him and try to see if you can open a new bank account.
Oloni
I want to break up with my girlfriend because I’m not feeling her the same way as before and I’m bored of our relationship. But she booked us a holiday next month for my birthday and I just feel kinda bad about the whole thing. What should I do?
26. September 2017
Tell her so she can take someone else.
Oloni
If a guy suggests going to a hotel after dinner (which he pays for) for a first date, What do you think that means? Does he view me as a hoe?
26. September 2017
Not necessarily a hoe, just trying his luck to get you into bed.
Hi Oloni! I have a mad dilemma. Been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I’ve made a huge mistake of cheating on him with my ex. It’s driving me insane and I feel horrible that I have kept this in for so long and I’m not sure what to do. I really love my boyfriend but I keep making mistakes. What should I do?
26. September 2017
Tell him and break up.
Oloni
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