I have been having thoughts of cheating on my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 months. He doesn’t satisfy my sexually & he complains that he is not satisfied most times but he is really trying hard to improve our sex life. He’s a really good guy but I feel like I want to explore because I lost my virginity to him and I haven’t been with anyone else
1. October 2017
Discussing this on my radio tonight #LaidBareLiveOnRadar on radarradio.com at 8pm
Hey Oloni, I hope all is well. I just simply wanted to thank you for being such a great role model for young women like myself. You’ve given me so much insight and advice that I’ve taken and my life began to flourish. I’ve gotten rid of a guy who was using me and now I am so much happier. So thank you again. I wish you this best in every aspect of your life!
1. October 2017
I typed my name in my boyfriends whatsapp and I saw that when we started seeing eachother (like way before our relationship, around 4 months in) He sent a private photo which I sent him (quite provocative, underwear but nipples covered) to one of his close boys. It made me feel on edge especially since we’ve exchanged several nudes since then. That one picture was the only evidence I saw and quickly put his phone back down and did not mention it because he’s just gonna go on about why I read his messages and snooped. We are now like 5 months into our relationship and we’ve had good times and a nice summer. I’ve also been around the boy the sent it to as that’s his friend but I didn’t know he’s seen so much of me. I want my bf to know I’m not cool with that at all but I don’t know how to bring it up without snitching on myself about going on his whatsapp. This was yesterday by the way that I discovered this. My girls don’t like him so they’ll tell me to leave but I love him so What should I do about this??
1. October 2017
Discussing this on my radio tonight #LaidBareLiveOnRadar on radarradio.com at 8pm
I went to the petrol station with my man and it was pay at pump and he didn’t have his card so he said let me use your card and I’ll give you cash, he gave me £15 cash and did his thing whatever I didn’t watch as why should I, I trust him. A few days later I check my online banking and see he put £35 petrol in, when he told me and gave me £15. This pissed me off also I no he has a lot of money so it’s not as though he can’t afford it, if that was the case I would have ignored it but he has money. When I confronted him he just said sorry 🙁 like that was all no reasoning didn’t even seem embarrassed? Is this a red flag!! It’s not even the money it’s the principle, is he taking me for a prick or what I don’t no what to think of this? He offered to give the money back but why did he even do that in the first place. Is this a reason to re evaluate the relationship
1. October 2017
Discussing this on my radio tonight #LaidBareLiveOnRadar on radarradio.com at 8pm. However, he’s an asshole, get your money back. And explain how you feel.
Dear oloni I got mixed up with some guy in fraud a couple of weeks ago. We slept together first week of uni then he asked if I wanted to make money. He took my card and then said the whole thing went wrong, gave me £200 cash and then my card got blocked. I’ve been calling this boy endlessly and he’s ignoring my calls and messages. Couldn’t even pay my contract Because of what’s happened to my phone. Next thing I hear he’s seeing another girl who has become quite popular because she’s pretty and I think I should tell her to watch out because no one knows what he’s done to
26. September 2017
Are you annoyed cus he’s moved on? Or because you genuinely don’t want him to do it to another person. If it is the latter, then it’s up to you to inform her.
You should however, sort yourself out. Why on earth did you think it was okay to give your card to someone you just met??? That’s not smart at all.
Stay away from him and try to see if you can open a new bank account.
Oloni
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