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Hey darling! First off, thank you for stopping by and being an example to other women who want to wait till marriage! I wish I knew you, so I could ask how you did it, but I’m going to guess it was patience and commitment. Anyway, my advice is to do some research. Play with your body a couple weeks before your big night, just so you can discover what you’ll enjoy in bed. Do not rush intimacy at ALL. Allow foreplay on the night to last to at least 15-20 minutes, this is to help ease you having sex. I’d also suggest buying some water based lube and of course, condoms. Oloni Tired about talking to your friends about your relationship issues? Do they keep giving the same advice? Are you scared they might share your business? Call me today for some impartial 1-2-1 relationship, dating or sex advice. Find out more about it here. Sis £700? £700? 7 0 0 ? Okay, first of all, your man is doing way too much. While I understand that £700 to some is like seven squid to others, that is still too much money to be spending on another woman. She might be like a ‘sister’, but she’s not. The best way to address this is to ask him how he’d feel if you spent a lavish amount of money on another dude? Communicate how it makes you feel. If my man spent £700 on another woman, I’d ask him to collect it back. Wow! If this is what he’s like, then please take into consideration, that this is who he is and your relationship might bot be enough for him to change. So you can express how you feel… see if there’s a change.. and if there isn’t, either walk or stay. £700 though? Oloni It sounds like, he’s trying to let you go, when you’re in a long distance relationship, the aim is to have a goal of one day being together for good and working towards it. He’s saying the opposite. Have another conversation and ask how he truly feels about the relationship. Oloni Get rid of him, he’s using you. Oloni He’s an asshole, but you’ve made so many errors of your own sis. Never in your life depend on a man, that is the biggest and fastest way to set yourself up for failure. He probably did sleep with her throughout the relationship and if you do take him back he’ll do it again. Dry your tears, pick yourself up and look for a job. You will be fine. Oloni
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