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Dated a guy briefly 5 years ago, reconnected as friends in the last few months. No romantic feelings on either end. But in the 5 years he has a new good friend, and he and I definitely have chemistry. He’s friended me on just about everything, we matched on tinder, and we can text for hours on end. Should I ask him out? I think he may be holding back out of some weirdness about his best friend having dated me way back when. 4. January 2018

Ask him out for drinks during the weekend, there’s def something there.

Good luck. I hope everything works out well.

Oloni

Hey Oloni , I’ve come to conclusion that I’m cursed. I’ve never been in a long term relationship that’s only because I’m only ever a fantasy.. sounds crazy but I’ve been going through this for ever and I’m sick of it. I feel as if as if men lose on all composure when around me and honestly it’s no fault of my own I’ve tried to limit my personality, I’ve tried to dress in clothes I don’t even like so that I ‘don’t draw unwanted attention’ but it just doesn’t work and I feel like I’m losing myself because the men I have around can’t seem to help themselves. This isn’t me being big headed I promise you I never asked for any of it and it’s it’s breaking me. I’ve had friends boyfriends trying it on with me repeatedly, friends dads pinning me down and touching me inappropriately, male friends who I’ve been friends for years with helping them selves to my body when in Intoxicated. I can mention so much more occasions , I’m so sick of it I honestly want it all to stop. All the men in my life that I have felt have genuinely cared for me as a friend or just as an individual has forced themselves onto me in some way or another. I’ve tried everything Oloni what advise could you give me ? If I let anyone know about all this I’ll get told it’s my fault. 3. January 2018

You’re not cursed my dear, you’ve been put in some awful positions, but you’re not cursed.

Just wanted to let you know that your ask oloni is the highlight of my life ok bye love you 3. January 2018

Hi Oloni, I asked my boyfriend to go to the clinic with me after seeing all your tweets. Now he’s saying I don’t trust him and I always think he’s cheating. I will admit I’m insecure at times but this was just for my own sanity. He now says he doesn’t want to have sex anymore. Things have gone so left in a week and I don’t know what to do. Any tips? 3. January 2018

I think you should probably go on your own, for now. Because it’s quite silly that people still don’t understand the importance of sexual health check ups.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, my bf makes me buy the condoms because I’m the one who said we should use them. I actually handle everything to do with our sex life being safe/ preventing pregnancy and I feel like he does nothing. He says if it’s what I want then I should handle it. We also had an argument over going to the clinic for a fever all check as he thinks I’m now accusing him of something. Sigh, I just don’t know how to engage him more in these things, any tips? 3. January 2018

Your boyfriend has a very uncaring attitude which I find disturbing and I’m not even dating him. Contraception should be both your responsibilities, not just yours alone. Someone who behaves like this is not someone you give your vagina to.

Also going to the clinic shouldn’t be a taboo, what’s his problem? Why are you with him?

Oloni

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