Hey love, I’m really sorry to hear about what you went through.

In regards to your friend, what you feel is perfectly understandable and if it makes you uncomfortable, explain that to her ask that she doesn’t tell you about any encounters she has with people outside of her relationship.

It’s okay to say, “I don’t support what you’re doing, so I’d prefer not to discuss this”

Oloni

You did wayyy too mcuh for a guy you were simply talking to, you know that right? If he hasn’t spoken to you in two weeks, he’s not interested in you.

Stop making fake accounts, to e-stalk and put yourself out there and find a new love interest.

Oloni

It really depends on the delivery of how he said it, did he straight say “yo, the way you eat is ridiculous” or was it, “I’m worried about you and think you should try to be careful with your eating habits”.

Either way, it’s very clear you’re offeneded, talk to him about it.

Oloni

Hey love, it’s completely normal for your body to be different. As women we’re always going to look at the changes our bodies go through. Your postpartum vagina is wetter and only because that’s the change your body went through, some actually go through a lot of dryness, so this sounds like a good thing. However, if it is making you uncomfortable, try speak to a professional.

Oloni

Oh wow! I think the best thing to do is accept he’s not circumcised and instead, talk to him about cleaning his penis more and perhaps even giving it a rinse before getting intimate. We spend so much time criticising each others genitals that we forget what the male penis naturally looks like.

Please don’t make him feel ashamed of what he and every guy was naturally born with. Instead, have a mature conversation about what you’ve seen.

If you still feel like his uncircumcised penis makes you uncomfortable, then you might need to rethink this relationship.

Oloni