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Hi Oloni, my boyfriend of 2 years wants me to have his kids before he marries me. Btw we are both young (22&25) so we don’t wanna get married in the next 3 years. I find this very strange seeing as he is from a very conservative Yoruba family and I know that’s not how things are done. Is this a red flag or nah? 1. February 2018

Having babies before getting married really isn’t a big deal anymore. But if you feel like you’re too young and against it, then simply say, “no” and express you’d rather be married first.

Oloni

Hi Oloni!….I’d like to know after how many dates is it appropriate to go to a guy’s house? 1. February 2018

I would say three proper dates. Also give his address to friends.

Oloni

Hey Oloni. I’ve discussed how unhappy I am with my partner but nothing is changing. I am trying a lot more but it doesn’t seem to be reciprocated. Although I can see my partner is also unhappy, he keeps saying if I leave he will kill my next partner and me. I dont know how serious he is, he’s never actually physically hurt me. 1. February 2018

Hey love he’s making you a prisoner in your relationship and it’s sickening. I don’t know if he’s joking, but regardless I think you should leave. If the conversations aren’t helping, what more can you do?

Oloni

Is it bad to sleep with someone on the first date? 1. February 2018

It’d be great to avoid it, espcially since first dates don’t really talk about sexual health. But if you are in that position use protection.

It’s not BAD, sometimes people are extremely sexually attracted to each other and one thing leads to another.

Oloni

Hi oloni, my boyfriend and I hates smokers which was one of the things he said on our first date but he was so fine I didn’t say anything. 2 years later I kept it away from him that I smoke. He recently found out and is absolutely fuming with me and I’m scared he may break up with me over this. I’ve tried calling but he doesn’t pick up. What do I do? 30. January 2018

Give him some time to cool off, and try reaching out then apologising. There’s never any point in faking who are, the truth usually comes out. Especially if it’s a habit like smoking. Come on.

Oloni

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