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Oloni, I just wanted to emphatize with the 2nd year student who was tired of being messed around by boys. SIS WE’RE THE SAME LOL. I feel you 100% and like Oloni said, it’s kinda common, but you know, no situation is permanent and soon enough our rut has to end lol. Just knowing people out there feel the same made me feel less like an anomaly, so thank you for sharing xxx
15. March 2018
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hi oloni, i havent beat for about 11 months. ive beat 1 guy before but im scared to raise my body count especially to someone im not in a loving comitted relationship to. (btw im 19) question is; should i beat this guy and make him a regular fb or wait ? xx
15. March 2018
Heya hun! Do what makes YOU comfortable. Don’t feel pressured by society by worrying about how many people you’ve slept with. Do what feels right but be safe about it.
Oloni
Your blog has changed the way I view sex. Thank you!!
8. March 2018
Hi Oloni, I met this guy beginning of this year and we’ve been cinema and top golf and chilled at his.. we are so comfortable around each other and like each other. He’s cute and affectionate when we’re out together. I’ve asked him what his intentions are and he got mad and said just go with the flow and stop forcing things just off one question.. he thinks I want him to wife me already. Also, he hasn’t taken me out to an ACTUAL date. I always pay for myself and sometimes for him too.. he’s 24 and I’m 21. Am I wasting my time? I want a serious guy who loves me. I hate meeting new people so this will be the last:(
6. March 2018
All i read was that you’ve paid for him and it’s never been reciprocated. Please let him go.
Getting straight to the point, I used my ex’s grief as an excuse to see him and have sex with him and now I am feeling extremely guilty?? I’ve always been in love with my ex even though I’ve dated people from time to time. I heard through my sibling who is still in close contact with him and that he recently lost someone in his family. I contacted him as I was genuinely concerned for him and I wanted to see he was okay, he askes to meet up and I agree, we talk and one thing Lead to another. After this, I haven’t bothered to contact him or see if he’s okay, I just wanted to see him and fuck. Am I a bad person???
6. March 2018
You used him and that’s disgusting especially in the state he’s in. You could have honestly found attention or intimacy elsewhere, why him? Why now? I think you should try staying away unless you know can be there as a genuine friend.
When someone is in a vulnerable state the last thing you should think of doing is taking advantage of them. This is why some people find it hard to trust the intentions of genuine people.
Oloni
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