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3. April 2018
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Hey girl, so I’m overweight and hella horny. So obviously because of my size I don’t really get attention and yeah I know I gotta start hitting gym and shit but rn I just wanna have sex lool. Anyways I’m at uni now and with tinder about getting sex is quite easy but I feel like I can’t talk about these experiences with my friends because it just makes me come across as the fat, desperate friend but keeping it to myself feels very dishonest especially when other people are confiding in me. What should I do girl?
3. April 2018
Hey hun! Being a bigger woman should never stop you from wanting to talk about your experiences or urges. We all have our insecurities! I think you just need to feel more relaxed and comfortable around your friends. If they can open up to you, you can/should do the same. Get your nut sis.
Oloni
Oloni, girl, I seriously need your help. I already know you’re about to think I’m a fool for this but anyways.. I was seeing this guy, we were casual but exclusive but both started to really like eachother. He smokes weed and I tried coke with him for the first time, I trusted him. Come to find out he’s been up to some pretty seedy behaviour i.e. selling coke, doing road etc. In my naivety, he asked me if he could borrow 700 pounds, said I’d get it back that same day and swore on his mum’s life kmt. Well lo and behold, he got arrested that night with his mandem with a ton of coke, he’s looking at serving a couple years now.. He swore down I’d still see my money, days later he tells me he owes man up to £17,000 and I’m at the bottom of his list. He said he’ll come see me before his court case but I haven’t heard nada from him since. I’m not blocked but he’s not returning my texts or calls. I need my money, do I pull up to his yard? I feel like a damn fool.
21. March 2018
Just forget that money. You were messing around with a criminal and expected said criminal to be honest and stick to his promise. Lol?
Oloni
Hi Oloni, my boyfriend and me have been together for a while. He had that guy mentality where he said we would never bowcat a girl but with me he tried it. He’s done it a few times but I want to do it more. I’ve expressed I want him to do it more but he’s not really on it. I feel happy that he’s acc tried it with me but I want him to do it more often but when I ask he just gets shy and not on it. What should I do?
19. March 2018
Well first don’t force him to do it. He has to feel comfortable enough to want to perform oral sex. The times he does do it, try posotive reinformemt, by praising him and telling him how good it made you feel. If he’s shy, it could take some time for him to loosen up. Be patient! You could also try telling him outside of the bedroom how much you enjoy it. The good thing here is that he’s trying.
Oloni
So me and this man started sleeping together and I really like him as a person, and he has stated that wants to see where things go. 2 2’s now yeahhhhhh he ghosts a lot, gets in a car accident and has a very busy life so hardly speaks to me. How do I get this communication to improve as I would like to get into a relationship with him.
19. March 2018
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