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You are 18 years old lol breathe. Most young adults your age are sexually inexperienced. You’re not a unicorn lol. It’s not a turn off at all. If you do want to start sexually experimenting, take your time and start off gradually, but be safe about it. Good luck Oloni x How did you even find that out lol. Like who actively snitched on themselves? It really does depend. If it’s a clothing that blatantly belongs to the opposite sex, and makes you uncomfortable, then it’s understandable in my opinion if you’d prefer they threw it out. However, it were a pair of shoes or trainers.. is it really that deep? Oloni A lot of women have small breasts, it’s nothing to feel ashamed of. We all come in various shapes and sizes, once you work on your confidence, you’ll feel more comfortable. Oloni That’s really weird. They ALL block you after? I need more detail, cus right now it sounds like you’re communicating with them off dating apps, you meet, you turn out to be cat fish and they block. Oloni Hey hun, the number of men you’ve had sex with doesn’t have anything to do with why you’re not in a relationship. I always ask young women who ask this question, just exactly what they’re doing in order to find a commitment. I find a lot of people are more interested in a relationship and not the journey to get one. Do you date often?? Have you tried going to different social events to meet new people? Have you created new friends? Joined various dating apps? Gone to networking and dating events? If not those are some tips. Work on yourself as a person too! Good luck x Oloni


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