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How do you tell a guy he’s shit at oral without offending him? 3. June 2018

Try communicating and tell him how you enjoy oral sex. Guiding is very important as some men believe that future partners will enjoy what past partners have liked. So it’s down to you to teach him about your body.

Oloni

Hey oloni, so basically I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and we’ve had our ups and downs but most recently our main problem is that he’s constantly talking to females on social media. At first I didn’t really care too much because I thought that maybe I was overreacting and that they were just innocent conversations but I’ve seen them and these aren’t conversations that you would have if you were in a relationship, especially if the females he’s talking to don’t know that he’s in a relationship. I’ve spoken about it to him several times and he says that they don’t mean anything and that he just speaks to them when he’s bored. But I’ve gotten to the point where even though he says they don’t mean anything it’s makes me uncomfortable, what do you think I should do since I’ve already told him how I feel? 3. June 2018

If he’s having conversations which are disrespecting your relationships, you need to have another think about this relationship my dear, cus he’s not listening to you.

Oloni

Hello oloni,so my bf and my close friend were snapchatting the same street dancer today which means they were in the same place. i figured it was a coincidence and one of them would say they spotted eachother but no one has said anything. i have now shown my man the snap from her asking if they bumped into eachother and he’s gotten angry and said London is a big place. what do i do? 3. June 2018

He got a bit too defensive. Speak to your “close friend” and see what they say.

Oloni

hi oloni! i’ve been seeing this guy for a couple months but I still can’t find a way to open up. i’m a very reserved person but I like him and know in order not to lose him i need to become more comfortable and transparent. any tips on how to open up to a guy or get to know a guy better? 3. June 2018

Heya hun, opening up isn’t always the easiest for many of us and I think you should let him know this about yourself, so he doesn’t think you’re not into it.

Try asking him questions in order to know him better, in return he’ll probably ask the same question back, giving you a chance to feel more comfortable and respond. Be patient with yourself and hopefully over some time, you should see a difference. Baby steps.

Oloni

I want to start having more casual sex but where do I meet the guys to do so? 3. June 2018

They’re everywhere. Bars, clubs, dating apps, social media, shops, the gym, church, friend of a friend, reading this dilemma.

Oloni

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