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Heya, it makes sense as to why you’d be uncomfortable. It’s embarrassing if your boyfriend is online being specific with what sexual acts he’d do with someone else. It sounds like he could have a obsession with the reality tv star. Talk to him and explain what you saw, what you’ve noticed and how it makes you feel. I do think he shouldn’t have tweeted that, especially as he’s in a relationship. Oloni Hey love! Don’t be frustrated, the positive in this is that you KNOW how you like to be stimulated. Now all that needs to happen is that you teach your sexual partner how you like to be pleasured, be patient and practice and if he’s dedicated to learning about your body and pleasing you, you’ll see improvements during intimacy. I’d also suggest investing a small sex toy, such as a vibrating bullet which is amazing to use during penetration. Oloni This doesn’t seem like exclusivity to me. It sounds like hook ups which benefit both parties. Ask him in person if he’s sleeping with anyone else, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with doing so… just bring it up in conversation! Oloni Better use wisdom.. Heya hun as you know I’m sure, discharge is extremely normal for women, but if you’re really worried about it, see a GP or a sexual health nurse. My personal advice for keeping there all clean and healthy is to stay away from soaps, and wipes and use to strictly water to keep her clean. The vagina self cleans and does this with the help of discharge, so once again it is completely normal. Also, try to maintain a healthy diet and exercise regularly, I once read that this too helps. Oloni


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