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If he doesn’t know, there’s not much point bringing it up. You were physical with someone else before anything happened between the both of you, what now? If you had dated/in a relationship with his friend then I’d understand. Now i think about it, he probably does know, they always do. Just enjoy your time together and don’t bring up things which aren’t important, unless he asks Oloni Size can be important but, honestly, it’s not everything. Several… and I mean several women do not climax from penetration alone, so it’s vital to find other ways to please her in the bedroom. We all have our insecurities when we strip off, but any woman who makes you feel sexually uncomfortable should not be one worth pleasuring. Oloni Block him asap! You’re young, but old enough to know what you’re doing is wrong, especially when you’re clearly emotionally involved. Nothing positive will come from it, so why carry on further? Men who cheat on their whole ass wives aren’t shit, so believe me when I exclaim HE IS NOT SPECIAL. The quicker you distance yourself the faster it’ll be to get over him. He’s bad news. Oloni There’s nothing wrong with it, you’ve just sexually explored what your body enjoys and understand what gets you off. Anal play heighten your sexual desire, no different from men or women who enjoy their nipples being played with.. plus your gspot is there Oloni Try communicating what you enjoy. Explain what made is so ‘wow’ before. You might need to try and find a new way to make it exciting again, so figure what it was you enjoyed before it went flat. Make sure you’re on contraception too! Oloni


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