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Heya love, there are plenty ways to find men who’d be down to have an mmf threesome. First I’d suggest online apps such as plenty of fish, tinder, bumble and happn. There’s also a site designed for people who are into threesomes called Threesome Contacts. They’re a sex community for straight and bi men/women. You can try the good old fashioned way too by meeting new people on a night out. When you do find two guys up for it, make sure you ask about their latest sexual health check and use protection at all times! Oloni This is such a difficult one and I completely understand why you might feel confused on what to do. But what good is it committing to someone who barely has any time for you? I understand he works extremely hard so it’s also not his fault totally, but sometimes you have to put yourself first. I mean, he is right? Try having another conversation with him and mention how you only see progress for a week, which isn’t good enough. Try explaining that you’re worried about the future of your relationship and ask him if he has a resolution. If he’s spending all his time working, how does he FEEL not having any time to spend it with you? You also can’t/shouldn’t stay in a relationship just because you’ve been in it for so long. That’s not how to build or carry on a successful relationship. Oloni He’s trying to stay single, but also continue to get relationship benefits. If you’re not okay with the set up, talk to him and tell him how you feel. If it doesn’t change and he still chooses not to commit, thank him for his time and move on beloved. Oloni You’re welcome 🙂 Hey love, yes you have cheated and you might need to rethink your relationship and ask yourself why you did it. As for your sexuality, I can’t define that for you, only you can, there could be a chance you might be bisexual. Make sure you get tested asap and have a conversation with your boyfriend and tell him what happened. Oloni


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