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Hi oloni! I’m seeing this guy for nearly two months now and things have been going well, yesterday I asked him if he was talking to any other girls and his response was ‘it’s nothing serious with them I’m not talking to them like I’m talking to you’ which has me very confused. The way he behaves around me gave me the impression that he is only interested in me and doesn’t want to be with anyone else. Am I just being paranoid or do you think I’m just another casual girl to him? I know it’s still early days but it’s making me over think things. Love your blog btw!❤️
19. September 2018
Hey hun, he was honest with you. He’s also still single, so he’s pretty much a free agent. I wouldn’t be too worried, two months is still quite early days. Just make sure you’re not putting all your eggs in the same basket.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, realllly long story but cut short. My bf & I have been together for 6yrs (since we were 17) in that time we had a break saw other people. The guy I was speaking to is a client (I’m a hairdresser.) Since my bf & I got back together he found out about the client & doesn’t want me cutting his hair….. Fair enough. I understand but it’s purely professional now? Do you think it’s fair?
11. September 2018
Why did you even tell him? Lol sigh. Can’t anybody else do his hair, or what does he suggest should happen?
Oloni
Just wanted to say thank you for your great advice. I messaged last year about being stuck in a dead end with my baby daddy who had emotionally checked out of our relationship. Your advice encouraged me to move out on my own. I got a new house, job and even met someone. He asked me to marry him today. And I’m so happy now. My daughter is happy. If you hadn’t given me that push last year. I would still be miserable with my ex so thank you. X
11. September 2018
Oh wow this is sooo beautiful. Congratulations! I’m so happy to hear this ❤️
My man doesn’t like it when i look at him when I’m giving him head, he says its makes him nervous? Is this normal?
11. September 2018
I’ve never heard of this before if I’m honest. Is he awkward with eye contact during other forms of intimacy?
Oloni
My boyfriend is 22 and keeps failing college and is jobless. I’m trying to be this typical ride or die girl but I’m in debt and being held back. It’s so sad when I love him but don’t know how to go forward with this apart from letting go? What would you do Oloni? XX
11. September 2018
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