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Hi Oloni, I really love your platform and the safe space you’ve created for women to just talk frankly. Recently found out I got genital warts from a partner although we used protection. I’m undergoing treatment but I’m really worried about how future sexual partners will take this. How do I let a guy know without putting them off? I feel so disgusting. Thank you x 31. August 2018

Heya! Thanks for writing in. Genital warts are a common STI and can be passed on through skin to skin contact.

It’s great that you’re getting the treatment and also very important for your health.

When it comes to disclosing it with new sexual partners, you should always do it before having sex and explaining what it is.

As long as you finish your treatment and see a nurse again you’ll be fine. Just always use protection.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, i’m really hoping you can advise me on this. The guy i’ve been seeing for 4 months asked to be exclusive; which i agreed to. However we live 2 hours away from each other and he works and i’m starting Uni again but we are trying to spend more weekends together. He lacks emotional intelligence and stops replying as much when things get hard for him. I explained to him i’m here for him but he just said its a ‘guy thing’ to not to talk about emotions. When we see each other in person everything is amazing but his communication online sucks and i’ve made him aware of this before. What do i do? 31. August 2018

I’ll be honest, I don’t see long distance working if his communication with you is quite bad. He needs to be on his own so he can improve his qualities such as opening up and learning how to connect with a love interest.

Oloni


My partner tries his best during sex to get me to orgasm but I just can’t. With a vibrator I’m fine but with him it’s like I’m almost there but not quite. This is hard for both of us and I worry that he feels inadequate. How can I relax during sex and what tips do you have that’ll help me orgasm? 31. August 2018

Heya! Don’t worry too much. Plenty of women find it hard to orgasm during sex. The male and female orgasm isn’t identical in how it’s achieved. My tip would be to try longer foreplay and to try using a clitoral toy during penetration during sex. A great position to try this would be in doggy-style.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, so I have had a crush on this guy for about 6 months and I finally got the courage to talk to him. We were following each other on Instagram. We DM’ed and eventually I gave him my number and we took it to WhatsApp/iMessage. The week we started talking off Insta I find that he’s actually already seeing someone.. what do I do? Idk if he’s interested for sure, but also I like the guy. Help 🤧 31. August 2018

Seeing or IN a relationship? If he’s in a relationship then back off as you’re more than likely to be wasting your time. If he’s seeing/dating, he’s still pretty single. Talk to him and ask what his game is.

Oloni


Hey Oloni, my boyfriend saw that I had liked photos on instagram of male friends (group/holiday photos not even selfies)and assumed I had slept with them so liked the photos of a girl he had previously slept with out of spite to make me stop. I dont know how to deal with this level of insecurity and also my own personal anger at the photos hes liked 28. August 2018

You both need to talk. So everytime you like a photo of the opposite sex, he’s going to like photos of women he’s been intimate with? How childish.

Oloni


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