This must be very difficult for her, so remember it’s not  you..but your girlfriend who is going through this. I’m sure you have an idea of how torn she must feel about this condition. The only thing you can do is be supportive. There is no other solution unless this reason is enough for you to leave her. People have conditions all the time, but it’s things like this that show how strong a relationship is. Your family are wrong, she shouldn’t have to shave it if she loves you as its not that simple. You need to think about this properly and decide if you are still able to commit to her through all of this.

This is your business idea. There is no such thing as pussy-footing when it comes to business. You have to be direct and communicate your feelings. I understand this is a friend who has the greatest intentions to simply help. But you are allowed to voice how you feel about the situation without there being any hard feelings. In future when telling people ideas, word it carefully to them so they do not get the wrong end of the stick.

It seems like you made the right decision. You should never place your hand on someone else, especially when you’re in a relationship. This is one hell of a red flag and even break up worthy.

He wants his cake. Don’t give it to him.

Unknowingly falling for a minor can be scary. But now you know his real age, it’s your job and responsibility to make sure the relationship ends till he is of a legal age. You can discuss this with him and let him know, but make sure you cut it off before you end up doing something you later regret.