Hey,

So basically you’re not attracted to the guys that approach you. Well, I don’t really think there’s anything you can do apart from maybe start approaching guys YOU find attractive, so basically try and control the type of guys you end up speaking to in that way. Try that and see how it goes, if that doesn’t work, you’re just gonna have to wait this one out or ask yourself whether your standards when it comes to looks are too high. Also marriage will come in it’s own time,  don’t spend all of your precious singleness wanting to be in a relationship. Best of luck.

-Ebi

This is crazy behaviour and I’m disappointed to hear the police have been zero use. However, you’re going to have to keep on going back to them and continue to file a report about this insane guy. Take photos of his car pulled outside your house, take screen shots of the number that constantly calls, document it all and keep disturbing the police till this is dealt with. I really do hope this helps. – Also, do not contact his girlfriend any more.

Oloni

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If these feelings are getting stronger, girl do yourself a favour and back up from the friendship. It’s not a great idea if you’re constantly spending time with someone you not only have feelings for, but ALSO has a girlfriend. You’ve developed a great friendship with someone, so it’s okay to take a hiatus from what you both have. There’s no point telling a committed person that you have emotions for them as it’s just disrespectful. The only way to move past these feelings is to honestly give the friendship a break.

Oloni

Have a conversation with him about it.

Oloni

It’s what Valentine’s Day is about. You’re supposed to be out with a loved one, a friend, a partner. A first date on Vals makes a lot of sense. I always encourage people to spend the day with a crush or someone they’ve been eyeing up for a while. Enjoy yourself.

Oloni