Hey darling, you need to feel confident about your bits and bobs before you ever think about acceptance anywhere else. I’d suggest you stay away from the shaving methods that haven’t worked for you and do some research. Perhaps see a GP who can help you. I understand you want to be more sexually active, but first you must make sure whoever you’re having sex with makes you feel comfortable.

Oloni

Come on, you’re better than this. Why share a guy when you can have one to yourself? It sounds like all he has to do is say the right stuff to have you come running. He’s committed to someone and even if you don’t leave him, he’ll keep playing about with you till he gets bored. What I’m curious to find out is what makes such a disloyal person so appealing to you? Isn’t it a huge turn off? Be wise and leave this situation as nothing positive will come from it.

Oloni

It sounds cliche, but just be yourself. Relax and ask questions you’d like to know the answers to which allows you to know him more. Not nosey questions lol but the small stuff, ‘where did you grow up?’, ‘What are you favourite tv shows/movies?’ etc. Have fun!

Oloni

Hey love! It’s completely natural to feel insecure about something on your body, several of us are.  I have stretch marks that I used to hate but learnt to love. I think you should tell him what’s bothering you. By doing this you’re communicating what’s on your mind so he can make you feel comfortable. I’m also sure it’s nothing to worry about and if he does make you feel any different, then this lad clearly isn’t the one for you. Please remember to get as much information regarding contraception as possible before getting intimate also.

Oloni

It’s probably nothing to worry about. You never made it clear if they too became friends through you, but if she’s supposed to be your close friend, then tell her you don’t like that shit. Plain and simple. I understand why it bothers you, but if she’s really a close friend, she’ll delete him as that friendship costs her nothing.

Oloni

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