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Hey love, thanks! Give it some time then let him know how you feel. Oloni Hey hun! Welcome to the sex world and well done for being safe about it. I think you might need to focus less on positions and more on foreplay. Positions are great but if you’re not heated up sexually it doesn’t really matter how you do it. Ask your partner to spend more time pleasing and teasing you before diving straight into penetration. Neck kisses, fingering, rubbing, soft biting, humping lol! for at least 20 minutes. Oloni Hey hun, this is such a toughie because in reality a lot of women would love to be with the father of their child if it was healthy and possible. If he was just an ex, with no baby involved, then I’d tell you to let this go. But it’s hard not to paint the picture you just explained in ref to the bond between your newly born child and the dad. I think you should speak up and let him know personally, but ONLY till you’ve thought about it properly and it has to be for the right reasons. Do you just want him because he’s no longer single? Or because you truly want to work things out and give things another go for the both of you/your child? As for feeling awkward, it’s just going to have to be something you get through. The important part here is letting him know, remember that. You’re not asking him to drop his girlfriend asap, you’re sharing how you feel emotionally and letting him make his own decision. I hope I was able to help. Oloni Try HERGASM, Simply Oloni’s FIRST SEX TOY here: If you can have sex for a year, you can ask if there can possibly be more between the two of you. However if all you’re doing is having sex, I wouldn’t expect anything else. I would suggest you still speak up and ask, you lose nothing. Oloni If you know this, you should be telling him and sticking to your words by leaving. Oloni
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