Hi oloni I have a crush on this boy. I first made the first move and he seemed like he was interested. We speak quite often but at first it was always me initiating the conversations. We exchanged numbers a couple months back and started talking but he never makes the first move or try to get to know me. It’s been at least 4 months now and we have not really progressed. However I find it quite suspicious as he is willing to spend time with me somewhere but not in our current location. He hasn’t really made any moves but flirts back and what not. I’m curious is he not into me or am I doing something wrong?
3. October 2016
He’s not that interested hun, don’t over think it.
Oloni
hey girl i was talking to this guy for a while now everything was good, we went on dates he meet my family, then all of a sudden he changed up on me saying can we be friends. but i miss him like crazy. this dude really got me f’uped. i told him i miss him. what should i do girl he making me go crazy. plus i haven’t told my mama and she’s like i ain’t seen him in a while
3. October 2016
You’re just going to have to get over this one hun and tell your mum it didn’t work out.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, I’m 21 and a virgin. I’ve done other things with guys but never slept with them as it never felt right. The roast is becoming very but i also want it to be with the right person – however i dont know when this right person may come along. Do i continue waiting for mr right?
3. October 2016
Hey hun I would advise that you wait for ‘Mr Comfortable’ meaning you wait till you meet someone you can explore your sexuality with without second guessing it so much. Remember there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21. You can still enjoy your sexuality that way.. Masturbating for example!
Oloni
Hello, even anonymously I’m nervous to ask. I’m 23 been with my boyfriend (21 years old) for a year and when we partake in sexual intercourse he doesn’t cum inside me even though I’m on birth control. Him ejaculating in me is something that REALLY turns me on. He made a jokey comment about not wanting to be trapped which makes me feel like he doesn’t trust me.. Am I over reacting? Should I bring it to his attention?! HELP.
3. October 2016
Hey hun, this is something you’re going to have to discuss with him. It’s great you’re on contraception, and taking extra precautions, but now, you have speak up about what’s bothering you during sexual intimacy.
Even if he chooses the withdrawl method while having sex just before he cums there are different areas on your body he can also ejaculate on.. suggest it, to let him know it turns you on if he’s not completely down with going all the way.
Oloni
Hey oloni, so I’m in first year and this third year moved to me he’s really sweet good looking he says he’s looking for something long term has introduced me to his friends we talk everyday (bare in mind it’s only been 2 weeks) he wants to have sex and anytime we’re alone he attempts, we haven’t as of yet how do I know if he’s a serious candidate? Does he just want to have sex and leave me even though he keeps promising he’s going nowhere
3. October 2016
Two weeks is too soon. Get to know him more just in case he could be running game. Spend more time together etc. Being introduced to his friends does not necessarily mean he wants you to be his girlfriend.
Oloni
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