I’m confused, you feel like a hoe because you chose to sleep with someone, a person you’re with? I think you’re overthinking things way too much. You initiated sex because you had sexual normal urges. This is the furthest thing away from being a slut dear.

Oloni

Just text him and say ‘Hey how are you today?’

Oloni

Your boyfriend is being very immature and needs to grow up. If he can’t trust you, why is he with you? In fact why are you with him? He can’t say he believes you after he’s finished sulking. He had no reason to be mad in the first place. Have a conversation with him and explain that his behaviour towards silly accusations is affecting your relationship. He might open up about something and tell you. Accusing someone of cheating doesn’t always mean theyre doing something behind closed doors, so don’t assume.. You never know he might just have a history of being played by women in the past. Regardless… He shouldn’t be in a relationship if he doesn’t know what you’re capable of doing. Also, do you REALLLY need to be having conversations about skin products via DM? I mean it’s not a big deal but unless it relates to a job, men being constantly hitting you up via DM isn’t always the greatest look. Anyway talk to him!!

oloni

Hey darling, I’ve heard of stories of women struggling to have sex and this could be from a lack of foreplay and moistness from down below. Usually I always tell women to purchase some waterbased lube from an adult toy store.However, you’ve mentioned things that are more serious so I’d suggest you seek medical help because it could be vaginismus, book an appointment with sexual health nurse.

Oloni

Hey hun, anyone can ask me questions. If she did all of this before she met you, what’s the problem? If you mean she cheated, then the engagement needs a BIG pause. I wish you were clearer, but either way if you do want to stay commited, why not get some counselling together?

Oloni