Ask me sex and relationship questions here anonymously. Please make questions as *brief* as possible to make sure you get a response. Please be aware that some dilemmas may be posted on social media platforms and cannot be removed on there or Ask Oloni once submitted. Not all questions sent can be answered due to the high amount received daily. For a QUICK response book aprivate callhere
Grab your girls (or come solo!) and join us for the ultimate Empowerment Brunch, hosted by the queen of vibes herself—Oloni!
This brand-new event is all about building connections and celebrating sisterhood. Expect an afternoon like no other—fun, laughter, and deep connections await! Whether you’re bringing your besties or coming to make new friends, this is the place to be.
Hi Oloni, I really enjoy reading your writings.
28. September 2016
Aww thanks!
Hey girl, this is a question I’ve been meaning to ask. Say for example I’ve got a bf and we are in a good healthy relationship, how close should my friends be with my other half. My friends think I’m being shady for not letting my bf have their number and hang out etc etc but I don’t see the point of them exchanging words every other day there should be a distance
28. September 2016
Your friends are annoying and need their own love life. Ignore them please. Your boyfriend does not need to be friends with your circle. Meet ups together on occasions is cool, but I believe a relationship works better when everyone does their own thing.
Oloni
Hi oloni, there’s a fellow business associate that I have gradually developed a crush over in the last 6-8 months. Whenever I see her and talk to her I always get goosebumps. I’m not sure if she’s feeling the same attraction because she calls me nicknames and we tend to smile at each other when we get the chance. That makes question if she feeling the same. I need to find answers. How do I go about finding my answers if she feels the same way?
28. September 2016
Hey love, that’s so sweet. It sounds like you’re already flirting, so just ask if she’s single. If she is, mention you’d like to take her out some time.
Hi oloni, I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now. I’m really thinking of leaving him because he is dispassionate ( expects messages first and won’t message for days or a week if I haven’t messaged by then , no surprises , nothing loving ) but he tells me it’s not needed when I “already know” . We’ve spoken about this few times and nothing changes . Yoruba men hey, what should I do, I put in 80% of the effort. Do I leave or ?
25. September 2016
If he’s not making you happy find someone who will.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a year next month. A year doesn’t usually sound too long but when I tell you I feel like I’ve known this boy my whole life. We’ve been through so much in the past year, even lived together and I now work alongside his mum. 4 months into the beginning of our relationship he slept with someone, we had a break for about 3 weeks and I then decided to try and work it through with him. Things got tough and we argued a lot because of my paranoia which he had caused. One night I went out after we argued and I kissed several guys in a club, I went out again the next day and kissed a guy I had been seeing a while ago, 20 minutes after I met with my boyfriend and acted like everything was cool until a week later I told him, we again tried to work it through. It’s been 4 months since that happened and I thought we’d never been happier until he went to uni last week and kissed another girl 4 nights into his freshers. I’m absolutely heartbroken because this time round he had no underlying issue to want to cheat on me, we were genuinely happy. He told me I’m too clingy and said the only reason he has to go the extra mile of being nice to me is so I don’t get upset, he said he’s tired of it happening and he doesn’t know if we should break up and remain good friends or if we should work again on it. It’s a long distance relationship now he’s moved over 2 hours away and as much as I want it to work, am I being mugged off?
25. September 2016
Girl, you both need to end this. Relationships are not a must have if neither of you can’t stay commited.
Subscribe To Our Newsletter
Sign up to our mailing list to read our sex and relationship features first.
You have Successfully Subscribed!