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Hey hun, this is something you’re going to have to discuss with him. It’s great you’re on contraception, and taking extra precautions, but now, you have speak up about what’s bothering you during sexual intimacy. Even if he chooses the withdrawl method while having sex just before he cums there are different areas on your body he can also ejaculate on.. suggest it, to let him know it turns you on if he’s not completely down with going all the way. Oloni Two weeks is too soon. Get to know him more just in case he could be running game. Spend more time together etc. Being introduced to his friends does not necessarily mean he wants you to be his girlfriend. Oloni Eeek girl this is cheating. You had sex with someone else outside of your relationship. What else did you think this would be called? First I think you need to let your boyfriend know whats going on and how you feel. I’m sure he’s aware of not being able to last long, but there are a few ways around that. He could try a cock ring for example. Cock rings have been said to be a great way to help a guy last longer between the sheets. If someone you’re with exclusively isn’t satisfying you, you speak to them and address it, you don’t hook up with an ex. Oloni Hey! Staying in a commitment where you’ve chosen to move past mistakes is never going to be easy, but if you’ve chosen to work on things, bringing up old mishaps will never help. You need to have a conversation with your Mrs and explain how you feel about this matter. It’s very obvious this isn’t something she’s over and she probably hasn’t forgiven you. I think you should both go for a few counselling sessions with a professional to help work on your marriage. Suggest it to her, I’m sure she’d agree. Good luck hun. Oloni Hey hun, if you’re ‘seeing’ a guy, you must learn not to be too pressed about his sexual activity unless you’ve both spoken and decided to be exclusive. It’s normal to wonder and think about what he’s doing, but you mustn’t let it consume you. If you think he’ll be the one you lose your virginity to, then tell him you’ve been having thoughts, however you’d feel comfortable if he got a check up. Oloni READ: The Sex Stories You Couldn’t Make Up Even If You Tried
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