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Hi , I’ve been seeing this guy for months now. He tells me that he’s not ready for a relationship… which is fair but he goes around telling his friends about me and calls me his girlfriend to other females when he’s drunk. I’m so confused on what he wants. How long am I going to wait until he’s ready? We’ve been speaking for over 6months now ? 28. December 2016

Hey,

Fall back. Take it for what it is. What he is doing is not good enough FOR YOU. If it was you wouldn’t be writing in. If he’s serious enough about you he will come to you and ask you to be his girlfriend officially or make his commitment to you explicitly clear. Until then, go about your life baby girl, you’re not a mug. It’s almost new year, go into 2017 putting yourself first. No one has time for silly games, if he’s ready he will let you know.

Ebi


Oloni, I want my boyfriend back. We dated briefly between July and November. We broke up for a really stupid reason and because my friends didn’t really like him they thought I made a wise choice ??, yesterday I sent him a really silly and unwarranted text, and today I want him back sooooooo badly. I really want him back, can I text him the day after to apologize and try to start afresh? I don’t know how to start an apology since I’ve never tried to get an ex back. Help me please 28. December 2016

Hey,

Was it a silly reason or are you in denial? Unless you’re saying all your friends are haters then I highly doubt they’d all right off your man for no good reason? If that’s the case then obviously you need new friends. Make sure you’re not re-entering bs, 2017 is around the corner, how you start your year is very important, so ensure you’re going back into your relationship for the right reasons and be sure not to delude yourself into thinking it was better than it was. If you feel it’s justified just reach out asking if you could have a phone conversation, so “hey, i’ve been thinking about what happened and I’d really like to call you and…..blah blah blah”

 

Ebi


Is kissing cheating? 28. December 2016

Hey,

Don’t be silly. Of course it is.

Ebi


my bae has a business but makes me pay for the products but gives it for free to good looking girls on instagram to promote for him… is that odd and should i bring it up or am i over reacting? i get sleepless nights over this 28. December 2016

Hey,

Yes and no. It depends on several factors, none of which you have provided unfortunately. So for now since you feel uncomfortable with having to pay for the products express that to him and discuss why you do. Understand that what he is doing is normal in the world of business, reaching out to influencers can significantly benefit your business. It’s more about reach and influence, if you feel you have that then pitch yourself to him. It’s also important not to overreact, a win for him is a win for you, it may not feel nice but think of the bigger picture.

 

Ebi


Would you say a boy (22) you’ve been talking to for months gives you slow replies (every 2 hours) likes you? 28. December 2016

Hello,

Depends, is he in full time work or nah? What do you define as talking to? Do you go out on dates? Does he balance out those slow replies with phone calls or no? Is this the usual/is he shit with his phone? When you’re around him is he always on his phone responding quickly?

Above all else, the easiest way to fix this is to ask yourself am I comfortable with this? If not, express that to him, if he respects you he will put more effort to reassure you of his interest. But most importantly, have a discussion on where it’s heading and make a mental note on when you plan to bounce if no clear decision is made.

Ebi


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