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Should I be worried if my girl watches lesbian porn? I don’t watch any homosexual porn (gay or lesbian) and I know if she found out if I did she would think I was gay or something. It’s really making me feel weird but I feel like I shouldn’t. Got to the point where I thought I had to ask your advice on this.
3. September 2017
It’s normal, a lot of heterosexual women watch gay porn. Don’t look too deeply into.
Oloni
My boyfriend keeps leaving 😍 Emojis under girls pictures , he has girls doing the same thing under his pics but says its nothing as theyre just friends. Am i crazy for being upset by this ? I think it’s disrespectful but he doesnt see an issue?
3. September 2017
Ask if he’d feel comfortable if roles were reversed, if so, there’s an issue.
Oloni
Hey Oloni, i have this friend Ive been friends with for about 7 years. We havent really had many problems/ arguments but im starting to think shes jealous of me. Whenever we go out with friends, she will literally take pictures/ upload snaps of everyone except from me – she’ll see me looking good/doing good and never compliments me, but does the same for our other friends & the only time she has something to say, its never positive! Maybe its not that deep or maybe im overthinking it, but i just get that vibe. Should I talk to her about this or should i just leave it?
3. September 2017
There’s nothing to talk about my dear. If i were you I’d distance myself from her.
Oloni
Dear Oloni, I feel trapped. I am a very sexually curious person and I want to do anything and everything. I want one night stands, threesomes, orgies you name it. But I’m 24 and forever stuck at my parents house. They want me to stay with them until I get married. I am of age to do whatever I want but I somehow feel a moral obligation to be respectful towards them i.e. Come home at a reasonable time, clean the house etc. I can’t sneak off because of fear of being caught and It’s driving me crazy!!!! And what doesn’t help is that I also have very close-minded friends who will probably judge me for the things I want to do. I just want to enjoy my life is that too much to ask for?!
23. August 2017
Hey love, being independent is never too much to ask for. At the end of the day, you’re an adult so you need to make that big step.
Hi Oloni! Me & my partner have been together for 5 years now, we have a one year old and we are due our second in 5 months, we are both thrilled. But since I’ve been pregnant this time, I just can’t deal with him wanting to be sexual with me, I hate the thought of it and I’ve even had panic attacks during and after it’s that bad. I tried to tell him but he doesn’t understand. I don’t know if it’s just a pregnancy thing or not, but I just don’t know what to do anymore?
23. August 2017
Hey love congrats on your new bundle of joy.
You should never feel pressured into having sex and this is something that needs to be discussed immediately.
Being pregnant already comes with so much stress, and this shouldn’t be something else you should have to deal with.
Speak to him outside of the bedroom, because his behaviour is selfish. Explain exactly what you said to me, regaring your panic attacks.
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