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Hey oloni I love my man and he loves me but i found out he has been cheating on me with a girl he used to just sleep with. He was honest with me on how many times he slept with her while we was together (3 times). He begged me to stay with him which I have but I’m worried he will do it again because he’s reasons for doing it in the first place was because he was horny and I was away on holiday for 2 months. We have been together for 1yr and 3 months and thegirl he slept with is the neighbor. 4. September 2017

Do you REALLY need me to tell you what to do?

Come on! You deserve better. You going on holiday is not an excuse for him to cheat.

If you take him back, he WILL cheat again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again..again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again.. again.. and again.. and again.. and again…again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again… again.. and again.. and again.. and again.

Loyalty doesn’t blossom over night.

Please make sure you get yourself to a sexual health clinic so you can get tested.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’ve always wanted to have a threesome with another girl however I feel that when it comes down to it I’d feel some type of way about my boyfriend having to fuck the other girl besides me. Am I just being silly about this? Because I’d be very willing to have a threesome with two good friends but if someone I’m in a relationship with is involved, I get a bit territorial. 4. September 2017

From your entry, I wouldn’t advise you to have a threesome.. you’ve mentioned some strong keywords. One being ‘territorial’. Perhaps this would work better as a fantasy or with someone you weren’t emotionally connected to.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’m 22, never been in a relationship and I’m trying to start dating. My issue is that I’m just not good at flirting neither am I a sexual person. Any advice for us awkward girls? 4. September 2017

Awkward girls are the best!

There’s no huge secret to flirting, it’s all about holding a good conversation by bouncing of each other… eye contact and joking around.

Try challenging yourself on your next night out by talking to an absolute stranger you’re fairly attracted to. Ask what his name is, if he’s having a good time, the occasion of why he came out… who he came with etc. I’m not saying you’ll go home with a number, but practice makes perfect… then you’ll be ready for the next step.

Baby steps..

Good luck m’love!

Oloni

Hey Oloni I NEED your help. So long story short I met this guy at a uni motive, him and his friend were watching my friend but he moved to me and his friend pursued my friend (there was a group of us). So, he took me out (always pays for everything) and we beat the second-time meeting. He ended up going to jail and got his friend to contact me. He called me every day/week for the 9 months he was in there, I couldn’t go and visit him because of personal issues however he always asked. This guy was always busy when we were talking so that made me think that he had a girl come to find out he was busy (trapping I guess). Now that he’s out he’s still that busy guy and I feel like he doesn’t appreciate me at all. He hasn’t made it official yet but he tells his boys I’m “his babes” Idk if I should let this one go or fight for this guy, because I really prayed for us to work out once he came out. P.S – We both agreed not to go to carni however he still went the second day but was moving mad the first day when I said I was going to go, instead I went church and he went carni. 4. September 2017

Let this go.. immediately.

Oloni

Hi oloni, how can you tell when a guy just isn’t interested. I feel like this guy I’m talking to is perfect for me but he’s just oblivious to all my advances. Yet he messages me regularly and asks about my day and stuff and seems genuinely interested 4. September 2017

Ask him out! You’ll know by how he responds.

Oloni

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