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Hi Oloni, this might be a little bit of a silly question to ask but will sleeping with a guy keep him interested? As well as being there when he needs you, being attentive to his needs, be it emotional, physical, sexual etc? I’m only 19 and I’m interested in other women’s opinions and experiences? TIA x
14. September 2017
Hey Tia, no it won’t keep him interested. Just be yourself and understand that if it’s meant to be, it’ll be.
P.s
please don’t do too much by being there for all his personal needs IF you are NOT his girlfriend.
Hi Oloni.ive recently relocated to london and I’m finding it hard to meet new people who I don’t work with. Can you recommend any places or activities that will help me socialise and maybe meet a new love interest. All I do is work now due to being bored on my days off. I’m only 23 and worried this may stop me finding love too. Please help.
14. September 2017
Hey hun download some social media apps that allow you to make friends with people in your area. There’s always an event happening in London too, just have a search on fb.
Oloni
What do you do when you notice the guy you’re speaking/seeing is liking other girls pictures on Instagram & tagging them on posts? . I get it, I’m guilty of liking guys (models) pictures, it’s just the tagging that is bothering me… I might be jumping into conclusions or maybe I’m just not ready& need to work on myself?! I would appreciate your opinion on this matter. Thank you!
14. September 2017
Tagging how? His friends? Either way he’s single.
Hi oloni. So I’m in a relationship and my bf is great, he’s really kind and treats me well. The problem is that whenever he has to deliver any kind of negative news, he assumes my reaction is going to be bitchy even tho I’ve never reacted like this. Like, he cancelled on me cos of work and I said *sincerely* that it’s fine don’t worry about it, and he immediately said don’t be annoyed it’s not my fault. This constant playing the victim is getting annoying and my patience to appease him has worn thin. We have argued about this several times! Any advice??
14. September 2017
Have a conversation with him before it reaches that point again. Explain how it makes you feel. There’s clearly a miscommunication between the two of you, and it needs to be resolved.
Oloni
Hi oloni, I don’t think my boyfriend enjoys having sex with me. He’s really good in the sheets, he gives me leg shaking orgasms and I cum every time we have sex. He however, rarely cums, and when he does he has to masterbate himself to get off because I can’t even get him to cum like that. It really makes me feel anxious because I can’t please him. I know this must be a weird dilemma because it’s usually women who struggle to orgasm with their partners but with me it’s reverse lol. I feel like I may lose him because lately he doesn’t even seem interested in having sex now. I’ve searched the internet for tips but nothing I do seems to work. How should I try to spice things up?
14. September 2017
Hey hun, this isn’t a weird dilemma. Try longer foreplay including oral sex with him. It will help him reach his climax.
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