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Hey, I was in a relationship for 6 months with my girl and then we split up she told me she was pregnant and that she was going to get rid of it but then two months later she messaged me saying that she is keeping it and she is 5 and a half months pregnant, I wasn’t sure if she was just trying to trap me but after a while I got back to her and told her that I need to think about what I need to do as I am very young and I have a lot of family problems and social problems right now, I tried calling her and she has blocked my number and blocked me off all social media websites what do I do?
21. May 2015
You try and get in touch with her family or a friend, but only if it’s to calmly discuss the position you’re both in. Yes she changed her mind and she’s allowed to. I understand you have other issues, but that’s the result of unprotected sex. There’s a high chance a responsibility is created. I hope you do get in contact with her and work everything out.
I’ve been with a guy on and off for 5 years but we end up fighting and making up every couple of months , I block him off everything so I can get over him but nothing works and he tries so hard to get in contact with me , how do I fully get rid of him and move on
21. May 2015
You need to read a copy of 100 Questions: https://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/
Hi Oloni, been with my girlfriend for two years now and recently she has been asking me about the amount of females I have slept with. I am kind of ashamed of my numbers but I have alway used protection (never caught a STD & frequently had check ups). I have slept with just over 200 women before I met her but since being with her I have been 100% faithful. I am seriously in love with her, should I tell her the truth? I am scared that she will think differently about me.
21. May 2015
Your sexual history really shouldn’t matter, especially since you haven’t had any sexual infections. If you don;t wish to discuss it, you can say so.
I want to get my partner a cock ring for his birthday. We’ve been together for two years, sex is great. I just want to explore more. Which toys would you suggest?
21. May 2015
A rampant rabbit cock ring is good. Especially as it’s designed for couples to use. The ears stimulate the clitoris whilst he also feels the vibration from the ring. Win win.
I’m pregnant with my second child by a different man. He doesn’t want the baby. I’ve already had an abortion not too long ago for him and even though I’m in love with him, he doesn’t love me back. He says he likes me but I’ve just been sex for the past few months. I really don’t want to have another abortion but I know he’s not gonna be around if I go through with the pregnancy & I know he will make my life hell. I will be known as the girl who trapped him. Could you make this question of the day so I can see the response on the TL maybe?
20. May 2015
I’ll do so, but first off don’t go do anything you don’t want to do out of fear that someone will not be there. If you need time from this guy to make a proper decision then do so.
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