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Hey oloni, my hook up has recently started to act very very caring , why ? I don’t know. He recently did a few things he would never do , I like it a lot but I don’t know how to take it anymore lol is it an act ? Or is ones pum pum just simply turnt up?
23. July 2015
Who knows it might just be the latter! Talk to him and ask what’s up before you start getting emotionally attached.
Hi oloni, as a girlfriend I feel like I’m starting to have hatred towards my boyfriend, the problem has nothing to do with cheating or anything. But I’m starting to feel like fwb i hardly see him as he’s always out, it’s been nearly a month now and nothing has been said about seeing each other until I mentioned it which happens a lot of time. I just hate the way he makes me feel and it’s turning into hate but I really do like him at the same time. I tried speaking to him but he sees it as a joke and not that ” deep” I’m at the point where I just feel like I may not be the right person for him so I need to walk about. Would I be right and reasonable in doing so and what is ur take on this as another female please
23. July 2015
It sounds like you’re starting to resent him, because you expect more, as you should. If you’re the one who’s constantly bringing up the topic of when you’ll see each other next it’s understandable why you may feel annoyed. It’s supposed to work both ways, not just one. If you’re using words such as ‘hate’ perhaps this relationship is not for you any more.
My boyfriend complains that I don’t give him oral sex enough. Truthfully, I love to do it but he just has really bad hygiene and it bothers me. How do I tell him without being mean about it?
23. July 2015
You have to speak up and be honest about it. You’re in a relationship so the bond between you and your partner means it should easier to express how you feel. Help him sort out his hygiene by finding the right toiletries for him.
Hey Oloni my half brother met his girlfriend of two years through me. She’s actually my best friend, we’ve known each other for over 15 years. Here’s the dilemma I recently found out he’s been cheating on her and not with women Oloni.. Men. She can tell something is up but do I say anything? She’s like my sister.
21. July 2015
It sucks you’re in the middle of it all, but you do have to stay out of it, despite the closeness between you and your friend. What I will advise is that you speak to your brother because of this unfair position you’re placed in. What you don’t want is your friend planning a wedding one day, not knowing she’s dating someone who’s probably gay and disoyal. Speaking up to him gives him the chance to do the right thing.
Hi Oloni. I recently found out my boyfriend has been lying about his age (After preeing). He claims to be a year younger than he actually is. When i met him he said he was 24 then later said he was 23 and its remained so till now. The annoying thing is I don’t even care about his age its the fact that he’s lying about it. Ive indirectly confronted him about it like 3 times but he denies it and waves it away. what’s worrying is that he’s an international student (im a home student) and I feel the lie may be because he’s got a different reason for starting the relationship (if you get me). I dont know what to do. I don’t want to turn this into a fight and be wrong.
21. July 2015
You have to try and have a direct conversation about it. Let him know it’s bothering you before you make your own assumptions. If nothing develops from the talk it’s up to you decide what to do.
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