Hey Oloni! So I’ve been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years now and everything is cool, we have our arguments we go through ups and downs like most couples. He treats me good, like he loves me soooo much so much that’s sometimes it’s scary because I’ve never had anyone admire me the way he does and I never look at myself in that way I’m just okay looking I guess. Anyway my questions is, is it weird that I think about what it would be like to be with other boys as in if I wasn’t with my current boyfriend how would life be, I’ve had a few dreams in regards to this and I don’t know if it’s normal as I’m fine in my relationship so I dont get why I seem to have these sort of fantasies would you say… is this normal or is this telling me something? Please help xx
5. March 2018
I think it’s normal and natural. Ask several people in loving relationships and they’ll probably say they’ve done it too.
Oloni
Hey Oloni not sure if you answer dilemmas from men, but im lost for words. I recently asked my wife for a divorce because sadly, our marriage isn’t working. We even tried therapy but still nothing changed. We also have a 3 year old, but my wife has said if i leave i have to have full custody of our child. I feel like she’s punishing me after slipping up in our marriage, but this is unreasonable. I work 5 sometimes 6 days a week and occasionally work abroad. I don’t want to ask my family to take in our child, any suggestions on how i can change her mind? I feel like prisoner
5. March 2018
Heya! I think both of you really need to sit down and talk about this. You’re not arguing over a pet, your child is both your responsibilities.
I actually find it ridiculous that this is what it has boiled down to. . if your wife isn’t prepared to take on custody of your child, then it’s up to you to be smart about the situation to figure out what to do.
I hoping she’s bluffing, so you can compromise, but if not, you really need to figure out a plan, because regardless of how often you work, your child comes first. I also think you should get some professional advice.
Good luck
hey, quick question; i’ve been texting this guy for a while now and he takes foreverrrrr to reply. he calls me sometimes but when i call him he never replies. i replied to his text yesterday and he hasnt even replied yet. would it be crazy for me to send another text letting him know his long replies are annoying? the reason i want to text him again is cos if i call he wont answer
5. March 2018
Don’t waste your time. He’s not interested
Hi Oloni, I’m a new sugar baby and I have about two sugar daddies and I only have sex w one of them. So my question is how do I balance my dating life with guys my age 20-23 and sugaring? I have this one guy who I’m dating nd the sex is great, everything is protected and Im always getting tested with all my partners reagudless. So yeah help a baby out cause I still wanna have fun and earn and also dating fun. Xxx
5. March 2018
Heya! Do you know what you want in the future? If it’s a partner, try not get too attached to your SD’s. You’re there for only one reason, so remember that. In terms of juggling both it’s important to remember that every guy you date will not propose tomorrow. So just enjoy the getting to know you stage with the men you’re seeing, till someone’s worth cutting off.
Oloni
My ex sent me £500 prior to us breaking up because his account was in overdraft. The plan was for me to keep it for him and withdraw it the next time we saw each other. Right before we saw each other, he went out and I saw him dancing with his ex who he swore he would never entertain or speak to again. He was adamant that he disliked her. Should I still give him his money back or should I keep it as some form of compensation for the time I wasted with him? After all I did spend a lot of money on him
21. February 2018
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