They’re everywhere.  Bars, clubs, dating apps, social media, shops, the gym, church, friend of a friend, reading this dilemma.

Oloni

Heya hun, ohh nooo! It’s so important to be careful with who you allow to film you during intimacy. I do think you should try calling him (hopefully he answers) and make it clear you’d like the video deleted. You should also try texting him and instead of doing the “hey, just checking in”, communicate you want the video gone.

Allow this to be a lesson sis, we all make silly mistakes. It’s fun in the moment, but there’s always that chance you could potentially regret it.

It’s also illegal for video/images of nudity/sex to be uploaded onto the internet or even passed around without permission. So if anything did happen, you could report him to the police immediately.

Oloni

Hey love, you’re probably over thinking and I’ll tell you for free, it’s a common emotion several people in relationships feel. We self doubt ourselves into thinking our partner might come across someone else who we think could be “better”. If you feel this way, then continue to work on yourself and not for him, but because you want to improve who you are in general.

The truth is if he wanted to be with anybody else, he would be, right? There’s a reason, he’s chosen to be committed to you!

Oloni

It really depends on the friendship you have and also how long ago they dated in my opinion.

Oloni

Discharge is very natural! But it’s always best to run to the bathroom, just for a presex prep.

Oloni