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Hey Oloni I used this guy’s laptop to check something and I saw he had some tabs with porn on his internet browser. The problem wasn’t the porn, the problem was the type of porn Oloni. He had videos with black women that were supposedly criminals having sex with white police officers. There was also a video that was called something like “slave master f*cks his slutty slave” or something like that. I saw 5 different tabs. I was shooketh. I didn’t say anything I just finished using the laptop, closed it and carried on acting normal. I’m quite disturbed by the videos and I have a feeling he may have a fetish. (I’m black and he’s white) My question to you Oloni is whether I should ask him about it or even how I would go about it asking him. 17. June 2018

I genuinely don’t think anything needs to be spoken about. Please just do us all a favour and ghost.

Oloni

My boyfriend wont speak about his sexual past. I know from mutuals that hes slept with quite a few girls nd i said to him i would like to know about it as he may be friends with or have frequent contact with them and I feel weird being in the dark. I said to him I dont want to be in a situation where a girl may be there and I am oblivious and he said ‘thats life’. He also doesn’t want to know anything at all about my past. Should I be concerned? 17. June 2018

Let it go. If this was the other way round I’d say the same.

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Oloni

Hey oloni, a few weeks ago i was about to lose my virginity to the guy i’m seeing, when it got to getting it in, he went soft. I was angry and upset since It was a big deal to put myself in that position in the first place. I asked him what happened and he said he got nervous and wanted it to be special and that he feels upset because he feels i might view him differently. I know he gets hard around me and cums from oral, but i cant help but think i’m to blame? He’s not a virgin so i’m struggling to understand why this would happen. I want to try again next week however i’m scared if he goes soft again? And it’ll really hurt my feelings. Any advice? Thanks x 17. June 2018

Heya! He could be feeling under pressure and nervous as he mentioned. It is normal for some guys to find it difficult to maintain an errection when they feel like that. Same thing happens to some guys when under the influence of alcohol/drugs.

He was honest with you so give him a break, as it can be quite embarrassing. If it does happen in the future, try reassuring him by being positive about the situation.

The reality about sex is, that no matter how many times you’ve experienced it, you still don’t want to be put in weird position whereby you’re letting your sexual partner(s) down.

As for you, simply try again. Encourage longer foreplay. Enjoy a good 20 minutes of strictly kissing, touching, stroking, oral sex etc before penetration. This will help heighten both your sexual feelings aka make you hornier lol.

Enjoy.. and use protection.

oloni

My man owes me a lot of money and I don’t know what to do 17. June 2018

Ask him for it, set up a financial payment plan and try not lend money you can’t afford to lose.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’ve been seeing my man for some time now and he’s told me he wants me to be his baby mama basically. I said we can discuss it when we’re more secure and have our own place but I’m certain that I never want to have kids. I know this will be a deal breaker for him. Do I tell him or should I just wait until it next comes up? I don’t want to lose him but I’m certain my mind won’t change. 17. June 2018

You have to let hin go my love. It’s selfish to do anything other than that.

Oloni

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