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I don’t think there’s any harm in making the first move. He could be shy or assume you might be in a relationship. See how he responds and ask him out for lunch during work. Please keep me updated! Good luck Oloni He has a job, yet relies on you financially? Yuck what is that? Don’t you ever ask questions like, uhh “what did you spend your money on?” He either has bad money management, or he’s just taking advantage of you. Either way he has to go. I don’t think a man should ever feel comfortable enough to allow his girlfriend to finance his life. It screams irresponsibility to me and comes across very lousy, especially if he KNOWS what position you’re in. I’m sure he’s aware of what he’s doing, so tell him to either fix up or break up. You’re a tad silly for enabling him too. You’re a student, so by default, you’re broke. Why did you even think it was okay to give him that much money? Learn to be a bit selfish, because you’re only going to play yourself in the end. Oloni Heya hun, there are plenty of people who are misinformed about the virus so I understand your concern. I’ve added a link to a blog where I gave some information about it here: https://simplyoloni.com/usher-herpes-and-everything-you-should-know-about-the-virus/ Heya love, there are plenty ways to find men who’d be down to have an mmf threesome. First I’d suggest online apps such as plenty of fish, tinder, bumble and happn. There’s also a site designed for people who are into threesomes called Threesome Contacts. They’re a sex community for straight and bi men/women. You can try the good old fashioned way too by meeting new people on a night out. When you do find two guys up for it, make sure you ask about their latest sexual health check and use protection at all times! Oloni This is such a difficult one and I completely understand why you might feel confused on what to do. But what good is it committing to someone who barely has any time for you? I understand he works extremely hard so it’s also not his fault totally, but sometimes you have to put yourself first. I mean, he is right? Try having another conversation with him and mention how you only see progress for a week, which isn’t good enough. Try explaining that you’re worried about the future of your relationship and ask him if he has a resolution. If he’s spending all his time working, how does he FEEL not having any time to spend it with you? You also can’t/shouldn’t stay in a relationship just because you’ve been in it for so long. That’s not how to build or carry on a successful relationship. Oloni
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