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He has no right to be asking for passwords etc. that’s way too much. The key to an apartment he pays for I hear, but either way he sounds quite controlling. The truth is if you don’t want to deal with any of this any more, you have to cut him off and find another way to get your bills paid. When a sugar daddy sponsors a large majority of your livelihood, some can definitely become overbearing. Cut him off or talk to him and let him no if he doesn’t back off, you’ll leave. Oloni Hey love, it sucks that he lied about being intimate with other people as he put your sexual health at risk. It wouldn’t have cost him anything to be honest. In the future just be sexually wise by ALWAYS using condoms. Buy some and always carry them with you just in case. Most importantly you need to see a sexual health nurse asap to get tested. Once you tell them you’ve been sexually active with someone who has chlamydia, they’ll give you the antibiotics, but it’s usually advised to return in another couple of weeks to get tested again. You’ll be fine. Oloni Hun get your hair. Why are you worried about explaining your hair to a caucasian man? He’s white, not an alien. If it comes up you simply say it’s a wig/weave/hair extensions etc. It’s not that serious lol. Oloni Hey my love! I’m sooo sorry you’re going though this. He sounds extremely selfish and controlling. It’s almost as if he doesn’t trust you. You have two kids and deserve a break away with them, so I can’t possibly understand why your partner is making a big deal out of it, especially if he’s unwilling to come along. Try sitting down and having a conversation with him to get to the root of the problem. It’s also vital you explain, the memories you’d like to create with him and how much they’ll mean to your children one day. This is someone you’re planning to marry so make sure you’re paying attention to his behaviour. It might be very useful seeking couples therapy together. Oloni Drunk or not you have to be extremely careful with how you speak to your colleagues.. in fact anyone. It’s really inappropriate and could easily make anyone uncomfortable. I think it’s important you apologise face to face and explain that it’ll never happen again. It’d also be good idea to probably be mindful of how much you drink to make sure this type of situation isn’t repeated. Oloni
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