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Hey Oloni, I want to know if you know of any good “dirty talk” words I can use during sex that’ll turn my man on and make oral a tad bit more exciting? 1. August 2018

Heya hun, there are so many fun naughty words you can use but why not start off by describing what you’re doing when giving him oral pleasure.

So, “do you like when I make it all nice and wet?” ..or “would you like me to choke on it?”

Good luck and happy sucking.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, I recently got catfished by a guy I fell in love with. We met on a dating app and spoke on the phone everyday for 4 months before we met. 4 months is a long time to build a bond with someone and I just fell in love with his personality and he says he is in love me with me too. The problem is that he isn’t who he portrayed himself to be in his photos, when we met I was in shock and he said “well obviously I look abit differently to what you expected but I wanted someone to fall for me genuinely”. But how is it genuine if he basically lied about what he looks like for months. He says that is the only thing he lied about. Basically he’s not ever what I would go for looks wise, I’m flat out not attracted to him in real life. But I miss our conversations, I feel like I’ve lost a best friend and someone I truly had feelings for. I told him I’d need time to think. I really need advice on whether or not I should cut him off for catfishing me or just remain as friends because I can’t be with someone who I’m not attracted to physically. I don’t want to sound shallow either way. What do you think I should do please? 1. August 2018

Anyone who can lie about what they look like should not be trusted. It’s a huge red flag. Next time please try facetiming, because 4 months??

Oloni

Hey Oloni, my bf drove his female colleague home from work last week and says it’s because it was too hot for her to take the tube. She then called him to say thank you. He’s never done something like this before. Should I trust his word or investigate further? 1. August 2018

Ah sis it really is hot on the tubes. Believe him unless he’s given you other reasons to doubt him.

Oloni

Hey Oloni, I’m crying as i type this cus I don’t know what to do. I’m getting married in two weeks even after recently finding out my fiancé was having an affair with his sisters best friend. I forgave him. Stupid .. i know.. but we’ve spent so much on this wedding. It’s even featured on major outlets… yesterday he told me that the girl was pregnant for him. I’m so angry with myself because i’m also with child. We’re a couple months apart ..I lost my virginity to this man and I am deeply in love with him as he is all i’ve ever known. I’ve begged him to bribe her to get an abortion but he called me stupid and said he won’t do that to his child. Should I still move forward with the marriage? My whole family from Nigeria are coming to the UK for it. Anon pls 25. July 2018

Oh wow! 💔

I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. Right now you need to be around good friends, because this is way to messy for you to deal with on you’re own.

What he has done is selfish and quite frankly unforgivable. Please do not go through with that wedding as I always say broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

He’s broken vows before your day, so just imagine what you will deal with if you tie the knot. Men do not change at the alter, so please don’t follow through with it.

Whilst I understand your rage it was wrong of you to get your partner to bribe her. The decision of keeping a baby is hers alone.

I think it’s best you explain to your immediate family what he has done. This type of betrayal is not one you sweep under a carpet and smile about after. He got a whole other woman pregnant…?

I hope you heal and also take care of yourself for your baby, but please let this man go. He deserves himself.

Oloni

Hey Oloni. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now but I have never orgasmed when we have sex or any kind of foreplay. We’ve tried different positions and all types of foreplay and nothing has worked. I know it’s possible because I can do it solo but it’s becoming frustrating that our sex life as a couple just isn’t satisfying me completely even though I still enjoy it when we have sex. Do you have any advice? 25. July 2018

Hey love! Keep fighting for that orgasm and DO not lose hope. It’s a known fact that a lot of women find it hard to climax through penetrative sex.

If you’re able to reach an orgasm through solo play, try bringing a sex toy to the bedroom for clitoral stimulation. Ask him to use it during foreplay and you can use it during penetration. A great position to use it would be doggy-style.

Oloni

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