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5. June 2015
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Hi! So I’ve been talking to this guy for just over a month now and it’s going extremely well, we hit it off right from the start, we have quite a lot in common and we never run out of questions to ask each other. I really like him and he feels the same but last July he ended things with his girlfriend of 4 years. I’m not quite sure whether I should tell him that I feel like taking things to the next level or whether I should give it time as he was in a long-term relationship as we’ve only been speaking for a month. I don’t want to rush things but at the same time I don’t want to waste time waiting around. What would you advise me to do?
5. June 2015
It’s been a month, chill. You don’t really no anybody in the space of a month. Spend time together, go on dates etc. In another 3 months you may dislike the guy or grow fond of him more. My point is, don’t rush things.
I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for around a year and a half, when we first starting talking I had no intentions of ever catching feelings. I really just wanted sex, but as I spent more time with him I really grew to like him, damn near love him. However he has so many other girls that he is being casual with, one girl in particular who has sent me messages of abuse and is constantly making horrible comments about me on social media. I’ve tried leaving the situation so many times but I can’t. Help!!
5. June 2015
You block every single person involved in this dilemma. You do the no contact rule and block his number so there is no way he can pop back up & you block the lady who makes nasty comments about you on social media.
If you want to move on, you will however if you tell yourself something might change or expect him to pop up again then you wont move forward.
I’m falling in love with my stepbrother. He only moved in last year and before that I had no contact with him. His dad has been with my mom since I was little and I the only father I know. We’ve already started sleeping together and our family is getting suspicious. We’re a deeply devout muslim family. His father converted to marry my mom and my stepbrother converted two years ago. What should I do?
5. June 2015
This is very messy. Soap tv messy. What are you doing sleeping with your step-brother? Nothing good is going to come out of the sexual relationship you have. The answer to this is clear, you both need to stop and find a way to stay out of each others space.
y girlfriend is in her 1st year of uni, and wants to go part time from next year because shes from Greece and she doesn’t have access to certain financial help we do. Anyways me and her have been together for a year. I’m in my second last year of my Engineering degree. We’ve been planning to get married one day and have kids however now shes really keen and wants us to have a kid shortly after I graduate. I tell her to wait till after shes finished her degree (because if shes part time shell be having it in the 2nd year) but she thinks shell be able to have a baby and still be at uni. However I want a kid as well but im not sure tbf she says shell be ready… should we?
5. June 2015
I can’t tell you what to do that’s something you both have to sit down & have a discussion about.
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