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I sometimes feel my partner deserves better. We are both loyal but a part of me feels i dont give enough. Should i be worried? Any advice
5. June 2015
These are normal thoughts that run through the minds of some in a relationship. You simply wonder if you’re enough. This could just be a phase & if your partner has given you no reason to think this way, chances are you’re worried over nothing.
Your Mingling Soirée is 2 weeks before my 21st. I’m so bummed cause I need to meet someone nice loool. P.s keep up the great work!
5. June 2015
Come to the next one & thank you 🙂
Hi! So I’ve been talking to this guy for just over a month now and it’s going extremely well, we hit it off right from the start, we have quite a lot in common and we never run out of questions to ask each other. I really like him and he feels the same but last July he ended things with his girlfriend of 4 years. I’m not quite sure whether I should tell him that I feel like taking things to the next level or whether I should give it time as he was in a long-term relationship as we’ve only been speaking for a month. I don’t want to rush things but at the same time I don’t want to waste time waiting around. What would you advise me to do?
5. June 2015
It’s been a month, chill. You don’t really no anybody in the space of a month. Spend time together, go on dates etc. In another 3 months you may dislike the guy or grow fond of him more. My point is, don’t rush things.
I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for around a year and a half, when we first starting talking I had no intentions of ever catching feelings. I really just wanted sex, but as I spent more time with him I really grew to like him, damn near love him. However he has so many other girls that he is being casual with, one girl in particular who has sent me messages of abuse and is constantly making horrible comments about me on social media. I’ve tried leaving the situation so many times but I can’t. Help!!
5. June 2015
You block every single person involved in this dilemma. You do the no contact rule and block his number so there is no way he can pop back up & you block the lady who makes nasty comments about you on social media.
If you want to move on, you will however if you tell yourself something might change or expect him to pop up again then you wont move forward.
I’m falling in love with my stepbrother. He only moved in last year and before that I had no contact with him. His dad has been with my mom since I was little and I the only father I know. We’ve already started sleeping together and our family is getting suspicious. We’re a deeply devout muslim family. His father converted to marry my mom and my stepbrother converted two years ago. What should I do?
5. June 2015
This is very messy. Soap tv messy. What are you doing sleeping with your step-brother? Nothing good is going to come out of the sexual relationship you have. The answer to this is clear, you both need to stop and find a way to stay out of each others space.
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