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I’ve been seeing this guy I met online 4 months ago and he said he wasn’t looking for a relationship, but recently he told me he likes me and wants to get to know me and it isn’t just about sex. I have trouble believing that he actually likes me and doesn’t want to fuck and leave especially since I’m a virgin
15. June 2015
He’s a liar. Keep it moving.
HELP! my friendaccidentally told me my boyf plans to propose on my bday which is In 2 weeks. I love my boyf but I DON’T wanna be married or engaged right now (I’m only 21,, he’s 23). I’m afraid he may have something crazy planned and I don’t wanna let him down what do I do?!?! I discussed with him earnestly throughout our relationship that I don’t wanna be married until at least 24 but he must think I was being coy or modest :/
15. June 2015
You tell him what you foud out & remind him on what age you said you’d be ready. It’s better to do it asap, before he plans something in front of family and friends. It’ll be a hard pill for him to swallow, but it’s better than pretending.
Hi Oloni, basically I started seeing my male friend and everything was good. I’m also friends with his boys but the problem is he has fallen out with them and now is taking it out on me. I don’t understand why he’s decided to push me away because of it. Right now part of me doesn’t care but at the same time because he was my friend initially I’m finding it abit hard to let go. There’s a chance I could be pregnant which makes the situation even more complicated. I don’t know whether to block him out of my life or not. Some advice is needed. Thank you
15. June 2015
Is he just your male riend or a guy youre seeing?? As for the pushing away have talk & find out why he’s behaving like this. Ask to meet up and discuss. As for the pregnancy, take a home test or go to the clinic and find out asap.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while and we have a really good relationship, the only problem we have is that he lets me down a lot. We make plans to go somewhere or to do something and he just won’t show up or make plans with his friends. I’ve spoken to him about it a few times and nothing has changed, and he’s doing it so often that I’m starting to not trust his commitment. Could you make this a Qotd please because I need help. I’ve been thinking to just give up, it’s like he doesn’t care he’s upsetting me
15. June 2015
You have another talk with him, if his action do not match his words then stop wasting your time with someone who is clearly dating their friends.
Hi! I was talking to this guy for a while during which he called me almost every single night even if it was just a 5 minute conversation, to talking on the phone for the whole night/morning. It got to the point where I started to develop and catch feelings for this guy as the relationship I had with him was quite intense, despite all the warning signs that I observed along the way. Problem is, one day he just stopped calling completely and I didn’t hear from him for weeks. He would then message me from time to time however, conversation was just never the same. Despite the fact that we only knew each other for a while, he was quite important to me and I still am not over him completely yet as I feel like I needed some explanation as to what happened however when I would ask him, he would just spin it back on me, almost blaming me. I’ve seen him on 2 occasions since and I didn’t feel as if he even acknowledged me one bit. I just don’t understand how he could just disregard me so easily as if nothing ever happened between the two of us? I know I should just get over it and I hate how it still bothers me till this day. How do I get over this?
15. June 2015
You get over it by understanding not every person you try to get to know will fall madly in love with you & keep in strong contact. Keep yourself busy & go out there to meet other guys.
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