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Hey Oloni. I think i fall for girls too quickly. Sometimes when i start talking to or seeing a girl, I tend to romanticise it and start imaging me and the girl in relationship or thinking we might have potential, when it’s probably too early. This means I often catch feelings too early or quite easily and then if doesn’t work out I take it quite hard and personal. I don’t know why I do this and want to calm down but I don’t really how to. What are your thoughts?
26. August 2015
You have to discipline yourself and learn to get to know people before falling for them. Get used to talking to more people than usual so you won;t fall as fast for one single person.
Hello oloni recently my boyfriend of 9 months gave me chlamydia and even though he had the decency to tell me to go to the doctors he says that he was shocked that he got it.I was a virgin before I met him and he wasn’t and he told me that he was messing around with a girl before me but they wasn’t in a relationship and that they were seeing others at the same time.I’m confused because he must of cheated but he’s saying that he didn’t and he must of had it and didn’t know.we’ve had both unprotected and protected sex and I got checked up 5 months into out relationship and I was negative.should I just dump him and leave?
22. August 2015
He’s lying and the results have proven so. I do think you should let him go, he’s cheated and is still beinh dishonest.
Hey oloni… I was with my ex for 3 years and we broke up in January as I cheated on her several times and she obviously had enough it since our break up we do stil talk now and then like what’s up u okay how’s ur day been you know primal conversations.she is has someone else but she never wants to admit it to me,she still has my name tatted on her which I thuaght since the break up she would try and cover it and still has our pictures on her Instagram…yet when I try to ask her to make it work she would say a straight No but she would tell me she misses me will always be her love?a just confuse?shoukd I keep trying or just forget it?
21. August 2015
She clearly misses you, but to miss does not mean you wish to be back with someone again. If you care about her then make it easier for her to move on.
Hey Oloni, I have a question i want to ask but i’m a guy lol, is that still okay ?
21. August 2015
Hi Oloni. My boyfriend randomly disappeared on me for a few months, and so I naturally flipped out once he tried to get back in touch. He merely apologised but didn’t explain why he was absent for so long. Am I owed an explanation?
21. August 2015
If he respects you, he would have given you one. Talk to him and ask what’s up.
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