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Hi Oloni, My ex gave me warts, I just found out the strange looking spots I had in my vaginal area is warts. Me and him broke up 8 months ago, but stopped talking a few months ago as his current girlfriend phoned me to let me know he had been lying to me and he has moved on. I don’t know whether I should let them know I have been diagnosed with it & I’m afraid he might not believe me neither since the last time we did have sex was 8 months ago (I haven’t had sex since). And I don’t want to cause drama in his relationship making myself look bitter and wanting to end the relationship, because that’s how made it seem like to his current girlfriend when these times I didn’t know he was seeing anyone. What should I do please ? Let them know or just have my treatment and not say a thing ? Thank You
26. August 2015
You don’t have to speak to him directly and let him know. Instead you can contact a clinic who can take his name and number and inform him. It will be done anonymously, in a sense that they wont say who the person is that gave it to him, but that choice is up to you. Either way, for safety percussions and to keep him from infecting anyone else he must be alerted asap.
I don’t want to have sex until I’m married but do you think that a relationship can work and progress to the stages of marriage without having sex?
26. August 2015
Of course, there are many couples who are celibate and waiting till marriage. It’s all boils down to the two individuals in the relationship and the will power they have.
Continuation .. As he lives near me. He was talking about marriage and that he’s ready and he wants to marry him. He is in the UK on a work visa and when I asked him why he’s in the UK when he was living comfortably at his home country, he said he’ll tell me when I knows that I won’t be able to leave him. That kinda weirded me out, what’s your take on this?
26. August 2015
Uh, this is dodgy. I would take a lot of time getting to know this guy. Especially when he’s talking about marriage so early on.
So I met a guy on my way home from a marriage seminar,I was thinking this couldn’t just be a coincidence. Gave him my number and saw him the next day as he liv
26. August 2015
Hi Oloni. A guy approached me at my uni library, he was cute but I sensed he was way too old for me (mid thirties most probably), so I said I wasn’t interested. Now I regret it, it wouldn’t have hurt to go out for coffee with this guy. What’s more, I keep seeing this guy subsequently. What should I do? I’m very curious.
26. August 2015
Wait for another opportunity to see him again and take him up on his offer if he’s willing.
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