Eeek this is a very messy one. If you were single I’d honestly reply saying, just tick it off your bucket list girl and move on. But the most important thing here is your boyfriend, you’ve cheated and he needs to know, it’s important that he knows. The fact that there might be a video just adds to why it has to come from you first. If those four years have truly meant anything to you, you will not hide this incident. I know the video is heavy on your heart, as no one wants a video of themselves floating around without consent, so my advice here is to find out where this rumour came from if you can and report what you know to the police.

Oloni

What he’s saying is that the more he got to know you the more beautiful you became to him. His attraction grew stronger and yes it’s very possible for this to happen, in fact it’s so common between couples.

Oloni

What are the mixed messages she’s sending and how long have you been speaking for? Please write in with just a bit more info.

Oloni

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It’s nearly here and I bet you and your love interest still have no clue as to what you’ll be doing this Valentine’s Day. Luckily, Simply Oloni is here to help give you 8 ideas on how you can spend the evening.

Salsa/Bachata dancing – So when I was out in Dubai last December I went out to eat with some family friends and they took us to this beautiful salsa dancing restaurant. At that very moment I wished I was with my boyfriend dancing.. read more HERE

Hey,

It’s different for different people, for me random girls won’t bother me as much as photos of people I know.  But the way I look at it it’s about both of you considering each others feelings, you may be naturally more considerate than the other person, but the other person may not see it as that deep until you make it known that it offends you.  So when it comes to it, people don’t always like photos with bad intentions or with that much thought behind it, but I do believe if I tell you something is bothering me and you continue to do it then that act then becomes inappropriate, before that I’m just more likely to think you have zero chill if it’s people I’m close to and it just becomes off-putting.

-Ebi

Hey girl,

You’re just gonna have to be like, “Hey I know we’re cool but I don’t think meeting you at yours is appropriate considering this is the first time, so if you don’t mind I’d rather somewhere public”. There are probably like four ways a guy can respond to this, “…” so he completely airs you (you’ve got your answer count your lucky stars), “that’s cool, where do you want to go then?” <<< (this guy is marriage material), “it’s not that deep” (this type of guy is a catfish and probably has the maddest hairline in real life, either that or he azonto battles his housemates in a circle at bait raves) or “well I was gonna cook for you, that’s why I invited you round” (80% of the time this is a trap, stay woke babes). All jokes aside, if you don’t like something, you need to speak, most times, come round and chill is the easiest most cost-effective option especially at university, but if that’s not what you want just say.

-Ebi