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My boyfriend thinks it’s okay to be friends with a girl he has previously had sex with. This does not sit well with me, am I over reacting 14. October 2020

If it makes you uncomfortable, (which it clearly does) ask him if he’d be ok if you did the same. Look, if he’s not willing to understand how you feel, there are plenty of guys out there who won’t put your emotions through this.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, my boyfriend wants me to be more ‘freaky’ in bed. Any advice? What can I do? 14. October 2020

There are many things you can do. From sex toys, enjoying mutual masturbation, sending nudes, to dressing up. Ask him what he’s into. Good luck!

Hi Oloni, my boyfriend is furious with me because I crashed his new BMW. I was at his house and he went to work(he’s a key worker) and I needed to use it to go shopping quick, so I didn’t tell him I was going to drive it. I’ve done it a few times with no issues. I’ve lost my job due to Covid and I can’t afford to pay the damages. He’s ignored all my calls and messages where I have tried to apologise. We haven’t spoken in a week. I’m scared he’ll break up with me. He’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had and everything has been great so far. What can I do remedy the situation? 14. October 2020

You need to find a way to pay for those damages. You should also let him know you’ll do your best to get it covered. Let this be a lesson, do not touch peoples properties without their full consent. He could break up with you, but would he be wrong to? Give him space after explaining that you’ll try to pay whatever it is you can.

Oloni

I am madly in love with my bf but he’s made it clear he doesn’t love me. He says after his ex/babymother he doesn’t believe in love, that was the first and last time he would try love. What should I do? 14. October 2020

Leave him!

My bf has a female bff that he knew before me, first he was speaking to her about my insecurities (without my okay) and giving me her tips, and now he is abroad. I can’t join. But she has asked to see him and spend time on holiday together. Should I be okay with how close they are and this holiday alone together? 14. October 2020

Yes. He’s wrong for sharing things you told him in confidence. It’s betrayal, unless you gave him permission which it clearly sounds like you didn’t. Tell him how you feel and that this whole scenario makes you hella uncomfortable

Oloni

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