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What’s the point of asking a question when you’re never gonna answer them . Do you pick and choose what you reply to. It’s really frustrating because I’ve asked you over 10 questions and you never reply 21. June 2016

I answer questions when I get a chance to and have thousands literally sent in. I’m not paid to answer dilemmas on my site I do it out of choice, if your question is that serious, you’d know the alternative way to contact me, which is by booking a call here https://simplyoloni.com/product/private-scheduled-call-session/

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Hey, guys basically I met a guy yesterday and well I gave him oral sex which I didn’t mind but I wasn’t and didn’t want to actually have sex which I told him already but he couldn’t control his self so he put it in with so much force not even slowly (note I have only had sex with one guy and that is like 6 months ago so I’m very tight). Which really hurt I kept saying no stop I don’t feel like it&trying to push him while crying but he didn’t stop he just carry on till after 1 or 2 mins till I actually push him off I have been crying because I feel dirty&slutty about it now I don’t think I can trust guys after that I dunno what to do I told my closest friend but I still feel dirty and also don’t know if this is rape or not plus I was bleeding after that too and feel so much pain. 21. June 2016

Hey hun, I’m so sad and sorry to hear what happened. From the moment you said no to any other sexual act and he continued it became rape. It’s good you’ve spoken to a close friend of yours, but I would advise you go the police as quick as possible. You shouldn’t feel dirty or slutty dear, you didn’t do anything. He took advantage of the situation and should be punished for it. I really do hope you take my advice and if you’d like to talk about it more feel free to email me simplyoloni@gmail.com

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Hi Oloni. As my 25th birthday slowly approaches, I’m realising that I’ve never really had a serious relationship, I’ve only dated people casually and I really want a life partner now. I’m reached that point in my life where I have so much love to give, but I just can’t find anyone. I’m slowly realising that I need to put effort into finding a partner but I’m not sure how. My confidence isn’t all the way there, and I’m super aware of myself when dating… Sorry if it seems I’m waffling and don’t necessarily have a question, but ultimately I want to know where/how/what I can do to find someone? Many thanks, Single and Tired 21. June 2016

Hey love to me it sounds like you’ve just been working on yourself and dating to find out what you’re looking for in someone serious. Book a coaching call with me here. I’d be happy to help share tips to lead you in the right direction.

Oloni

Hi Oloni, love your blog & what you’re about. I’m a sexual person that hasn’t ever been able to have sex because of the pain. I’ve never really wanted it till I started seeing my current boyfriend, huge guy a corresponding huge third leg lol. I love him, he treats me like a queen and we still get sexual so I’ve had several orgasms with him but I want the real thing. What do I do? We’ve tried using lube but it feels so painful, there’s alot of pressure too, even when he only puts in his fingers. Advice? 21. June 2016

Thank you dear. Okay right from what you’ve described it sounds like you could have Vaginismus. This is a consistent involuntary tightening of the muscles around the vagina whenever penetration is involved. I’m not 100% sure but I would suggest you check it out and also see a sexual health nurse or book an appointment with your GP. I hope you get all the help you need!

Oloni

Hey Oloni I have a question that I hope you read and answer. I have this problem. I’m not as sexual active as I wish to be because I’m not comfortable with my vagina area. I’m hairy ? I shave but of course it’s not waxy clean how I want it to be. I got it waxed once and I still bumped up. I guess I’m just sensitive down there. Guys these days seem Toño lay want girls with pretty vaginas lol. How do I approach a guy and tell them my problem without feeling embarrassed? 21. June 2016

Hey darling, you need to feel confident about your bits and bobs before you ever think about acceptance anywhere else. I’d suggest you stay away from the shaving methods that haven’t worked for you and do some research. Perhaps see a GP who can help you. I understand you want to be more sexually active, but first you must make sure whoever you’re having sex with makes you feel comfortable.

Oloni

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