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I really like this guy, and the last time we spoke he said we should meet up soon, and I said yes before the new year and he replies, when you’re ready November) should I Holla?
28. December 2016
Hey,
Yeh, no harm in saying, “let’s do something next week”…gauge his interest based on his response and when you meet up. Just don’t force anything. If he seems disinterested take that for what it is.
Ebi
why does every bitter single girl advise the girl in the dilemmas to leave her man lol. no one ever suggests actual help on mending a relationship. everyday leave leave , what happened to communication and working through things with a partner? even if leaving is suggested, it should be done so with empathy, we’ve all been in situations with a man we love who ain’t acting right, we are women, be more sympathetic because a lot of these women who write to you are clearly in love and have big hearts….
28. December 2016
You’re annoying.
Ebi
Dear Oloni, I’ve been sleeping with this guy for a few months now and I’ve made it clear recently I want something serious. He told me he wants to be more then just friends with benefits with me but also wants to be single. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to lose him but he is giving me mixed signals.
28. December 2016
Hey,
Lol this guy is waffling. If a relationship is what you want, leave and find you a man who wants the same.
Ebi
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28. December 2016
Hi oloni i met this guy last year but at the time he had a gf, but we ended up meeting up and making out we didn’t have sex though because i didn’t really trust him plus we weren’t in a relationship but he kept telling me he was going to leave his gf for me and that he was going to move to my city. After we met up he went back and started acting kind of distant and ignoring my calls etc.. So i stopped calling, after a few months i met this amazing guy he loves me so much we are in a relationship now and all he ever wants is for me to be happy.. Now the former guy hits me up and tells me he has moved to my city now & we start talking again ( i only replied because my current bf and i were having some issues and i wanted to talk to someone) now my bf and i have resolved our issues but he also told me that he isn’t comfortable with me talking to the former guy, I just want to ask is he right to feel that way and am i being selfish?
28. December 2016
Hey,
Yes your boyfriend is right. Cut that enemy of progress off.
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