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Hey Oloni, So this guy approached me on the street he took my number and we’ve started talking. Everything’s happened pretty quickly, I went on a date with him the next day and slept with him the following week. I’m not sure if I like him yet and I’m not 100% sure what’s going on in his? However this is still very early days and Valentine’s Day is coming up and I don’t know if it’s too early to tell if he likes me? If he doesn’t mention anything does that mean he’s not that interested or that it’s too early?
6. February 2017
It is quite early, so don’t be too bummed out if nothing happens on the day. You could try to sweep a cheeky joke about it and see how he responds.
Oloni
Hey Oloni! I love your blogs from Dallas tx! I have a big dilemma. I live with my boyfriend and after months of living together he invited his brother to stay with since he was living in the street. His brother is 31 years old, has 2 kids and doesn’t have a job nor is he looking for one. All he does is stay home and play video games while eating food he had no contribution in. His own family have disowned him except my bf. My issue is His very disrespectful. Has no manners. When they is an argument between me and him he Runs to my boyfriend and starts spreading lies like I want to sleep with him. If he was different he would have been fucked me, says I try to seduce him and my boyfriend because he hates conflict doesn’t say much or very little. This has happened on more than three occasions. What should I do? Stay or leave because his putting a strain on our relationship. please please I need a logical thinker to help me.
6. February 2017
My goodness, boyfriend needs to grow a backbone. That’s insane and incredibly uncomfortable. You need to put your foot down and demand that your bf kicks his brother out. I’m sorry, blood is blood, but blood doesn’t mean tolerate disrespect. I honestly don’t even know what to say…. let me just chill.
Okay, right. Your brother disliking conflict is not a good enough reason for him keep mute, when this craziness is happening. It’s affecting your relationship and you shouldn’t have to feel like this in your own home.
If he doesn’t move out, then you should and also break up with him. Who really want to be with a man who can’t defend his girlfriend?
Oloni
Hi oloni 🙂 valentines is near, woo! However my babe hasn’t mentioned anything yet and it’s a bit worrying ? I don’t know if he has anything planned and by keeping quiet I can only assume that’s the case. I mean guys should tell you about a plan to do something at least (even if it’s a surprise) as a courtesy to allow me to look nice for him e.g nails hair etc. Should I bring it up and ask him? Or does that seem like I’m being materialistic and giving into the Valentine’s Day hype? I am worried that if nothing does happen, it means he doesn’t appreciate me.
6. February 2017
Oh babe, have a conversation with him before you think about it to deeply. I’m sure he wouldn’t mind doing something if you express an interest. Also, FYI this doesn’t make you materialistic lol. It means you enjoy a bit or romance, on romantic days.
Oloni
Hey Oloni. So glad your site is back up!! So me and my ex broke up a year ago, we were just bad for eachother and seemed to bring out the worst in one another. It’s been a year of on and off contact, mainly started by him and then again ended by him. Recently he’s been really friendly, like more friend like than before, not just going straight in with the “wanna come round?”. I get the feeling he wants to see me again but is worried about things going back to how they were. I’ve honestly not moved on AT ALL and would drop anything for him still to this day which I hate so much but can’t help. Shall I try and suggest we meet up and see how things go?
6. February 2017
Noooo don’t go back. If you brought out the worst in each other ..the contact between you two should not exist. Honestly cut it off. Nothing positive will come from this unless you’re both masochists. Going back is okay for some, but not all.
Oloni
Hi Oloni , I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. Recently I went into his Instagram without asking. Now he said he wants the passwords to all of my social media or we are over for good. He also stepped out on me and had a baby in may 2016. Is the relationship worth saving or should I move on?
6. February 2017
He had a baby on you? Please let this dude go. You weren’t right for going through his social media, but a position like yours would make any woman insecure. His response to it however is insane. If you chose to stay, why would you stay to torture yourself?
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